But Wolf he is right.
Why would the show thats about female empowerment in its purest form end with the lead character totally about face, disregard everything she stands for and say 'I Love You' to a guy who, alot of people believe, isn't worth it.
Its not because she wants him to die happy, its because she feels it.
She even tells Angel that Spike is in her heart.
Love comes in many different varieties, stages and for all intent and purpose, from the way they acted with each other, specifically from 'Lies My Parents Told Me', you can see this level of respect, understanding, trust and love building between them stronger.
I honestly don't know where your interpretation is coming from, because her words were not out of the blue.
BUFFY
(quietly) I don't wanna be the one.
SPIKE
I don't wanna be this good looking and athletic. We all have crosses to bear. (Buffy chuckles) You get some rest now. I'll check in before first light. You can decide how you want... (walks toward the door)
BUFFY
Spike? (he turns to face her) Could you...stay here?
SPIKE
Sure. (looks at a chair) That diabolical old torture device, the comfy chair. (takes off his coat) It'll do me fine.
BUFFY
No, I mean...here. (touches the bed beside her) Will you just hold me?
Spike sits on the bed beside Buffy and puts his arm around her. She curls up on him, cuddling up to his chest as he puts his arm around her shoulder, holding her head with his hand.
This Scene shows that she wants him, not because he is sexy cool Vampire, but because she knows she has a connection with him, she wants him to be there.
The next scene
SPIKE
Honey, you're home.
BUFFY
Yeah.
SPIKE
(sighs) And you did it. Fulfilled your mission. Found the Holy Grail. Or the Holy Hand Grenade, or whatever the hell that is.
BUFFY
Right now we're going with scythe. You like?
SPIKE
Well, pointy and wooden is not exactly the look I wanna know better, but it does have flair. Can see why a girl would ditch a fella for one of these.
BUFFY
I'm sorry about that. (walks away)
Cut to:
33 INT. KITCHEN AT BUFFY'S HOUSE - NIGHT
As Buffy walks toward the kitchen, Spike follows her.
SPIKE
It doesn't matter. You're back in the bosom. All's forgiven. And, uh, (stands in front of Buffy, looking at her) last night...was just a glitch. A bit of cold comfort from the cellar dweller. Let's don't make a thing out of it. (breathes nervously)
BUFFY
Great. I have work to do.
SPIKE
Oh, yeah. Another solo mission, of course.
BUFFY
Yeah, it is.
SPIKE
That's fine. You don't have to get shirty about it.
BUFFY
I'm not shirty. And what is shirty? That's not even a word.
SPIKE
All right. All right. Big secret mission. It's fine.
BUFFY
It's not a secret. Well, I mean, it is, but that's the point of the mission. Find out the secret. This thing was forged by"” I don't even know. I mean, something about... a tomb on unconsecrated ground. That's what I have to do. I need to find out what this is and why I have it.
SPIKE
And that's the thing the preacher man was so anxious to keep out of your mitts?
BUFFY
That it is.
SPIKE
Well, maybe I'll swing by the vineyard when you go, make sure he's sitting tight.
BUFFY
Great.
SPIKE
OK. (turns to leave)
BUFFY
(walks after him) You're a dope.
SPIKE
I'm a what?
BUFFY
You're a dope. And a bonehead. And you're shirty.
SPIKE
Have you gone completely carrot-top?
BUFFY
Do you see this? (holds up the scythe) This may actually help me fight my war. This might be the key to everything. And the reason I'm holding it is because of you. Because of the strength that you gave me last night. Look, I am tired of defensiveness and weird, mixed signals. You know, I have Faith for that. Let's just get to the truth here, OK? I don't know how you felt about last night, but I will not"”
SPIKE
(breathes in, looks away) Terrified.
BUFFY
Of what?
SPIKE
(lets out a slow sigh) Last night was... (looks up) God, I'm such a jerk. I can't do this.
BUFFY
Spike...
SPIKE
It was the best night of my life. If you poke fun at me, you bloody well better use that, 'cause I couldn't bear it. It may not mean that much to you, but"”
BUFFY
I just told you it did.
SPIKE
(sighs) Yeah...I hear you say it, but... I've lived for soddin' ever, Buffy. I've done everything. Done things with you I can't spell, but... I've never... been close... to anyone. Least of all, you. 'Til last night. All I did was... (smiles) hold you, watch you sleep. And it was the best night of my life. So, yeah... I'm... terrified.
BUFFY
You don't have to be.
SPIKE
(looks at her) Were you there with me?
BUFFY
(looks straight at him) I was.
SPIKE
What does that mean?
BUFFY
I don't know. Does it have to mean something?
SPIKE
No. (looks away) Not right now.
BUFFY
Maybe when...
SPIKE
No. (throws up his hand) Let's just leave it.
BUFFY
OK.
SPIKE
(sighs) We'll go be heroes. (walks out the door)
Cut to:
Here, you have to read between the lines here, because the word is not actually said, but this is them saying that the night was 'love' induced.
ANGEL
Is it Spike? (Buffy stops walking, turns to face Angel) You're not telling me something. And his scent, I remember it pretty well.
BUFFY
You vampires. Did anybody ever tell you the whole smelling people thing's a little gross? (walks away)
ANGEL
(follows) Is he your boyfriend?
BUFFY
Is that your business?
ANGEL
You in love with him? OK, maybe I'm outta line, but this is kind of a curve ball for me. I mean, we are talking about Spike here.
BUFFY
It's different. He's different. He has a soul now.
ANGEL
(stops) Oh. (looks up) Well.
BUFFY
What?
ANGEL
That's great. (mumbling to himself) Everyone's got a soul now.
BUFFY
He'll make a difference.
ANGEL
(mumbling) You know, I started it. The whole having a soul. Before it was all the cool new thing.
BUFFY
Oh, my God. Are you 12?
ANGEL
I'm getting the brush off for Captain Peroxide. It doesn't necessarily bring out the champion in me.
BUFFY
You're not getting the brush off. Are you just gonna come here and go all Dawson on me every time I have a boyfriend?
ANGEL
Aha! (points) Boyfriend!
BUFFY
He's not. But...he is in my heart.
ANGEL
That'll end well. (walks away, leans on a tombstone)
BUFFY
What was the highlight of our relationship? When you broke up with me or when I killed you? I'm well aware of my stellar history with guys... (sighs, leans beside Angel) And, no, I don't see fat grandchildren in the offing with Spike, but I don't think that really matters right now. (chuckles) You know, in the midst of all this insanity, a couple things are actually starting to make sense. And the guy thing"” (sighs) I always feared there was something wrong with me, you know, because I couldn't make it work. But maybe I'm not supposed to
This is Buffy acknowledging to the guy that not only is her 'true love' but also Spikes worst enemy, that Spike is not just important to the fight, but that he is important to her, he is in her heart.
SPIKE
Gotta move, lamb. I think it's fair to say school's out for bloody summer.
BUFFY
(worried) Spike!
SPIKE
I mean it! I gotta do this. (holds out his hand to stop her)
Buffy laces her fingers through Spike's, and they burst into flame together.
BUFFY
(softly, looks into his eyes) I love you.
SPIKE
No, you don't. But thanks for saying it. (another earthquake; Buffy lets go of his hand) Now go! (Buffy runs up the stairs) I wanna see how it ends.
This here, it has the actual words, finally. Buffy says it. Yes, granted Spike is about to die, but there is no reason for Buffy to lie to him, not after we have seen there relationship. She simply wishes to tell him, because she believes she never will if she doesnt now.
As for the 'No, you don't' line, this isn't because he doesnt believe her, this is because he doesnt want her to, he doesnt want her to be in pain at his death, so instead gives her an easier option of telling herself she only said it because of the situation......though i actually believe this line was written in for us to believe he wouldnt go after her in Angel, make that believeable....which is so annoying.
So, Wolf, not suggesting you havent watched the show at all, but could you give your 'interpretation' of their relationship with the text from the show season 7 only?