Messages of support of Nick

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nightshade

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Write here any messages of support you have for Nick, and we will collect them together and pass them on.
 
"If a person gets harpooned right in the chest, even ten thousand doctors working together may have a hard time plugging the hole (at that point one or two doctors are as useful or as useless as ten thousand). Fame can be like getting speared with a harpoon while ten thousand well-wishing doctors look on. All of us hope you pull through and get that harpoon out, even if we're incapable of getting it out for you. Let that love be a source of strength for you as you move ahead."
 
You brought a lot of joy to a lot of people with your portrayal of Xander for many years on screen. It's a testament to yourself and everyone else involved that there is still an active fan community for a show that finished over a decade ago. I've also really enjoyed the recent Season 10 comics where you've been a part of the writing team. It's always very saddening to hear that someone who has brought so much happiness to others is struggling so much. I hope you get all the help and support you need and are able to overcome your demons. We all want to see you happy and back to your best.
 
Nick, I really hope that you get out of that downward spiral of yours and get the help that you need to take yourself out of there (such as checking yourself into rehab).
Yes, I know that attempting to go on the road to redemption and getting help is no easy task, but if you push yourself as much as you can and continue 'walking' on the road to recovery, overtime, you will see desirable results.

You can do this, Nick! 🙂
 
Nick, I've learned a lot from you watching Buffy growing up and still to this day when I watch through the series. Xander taught me that I don't need super powers or magic to have success or meaning in what I do. Having heart and passion will always trump those things. We all believe you have that heart and passion. And we want you to know that there are countless people wishing the best for you and if time or distance didn't get in the way, we'd all be there to support you in a heartbeat. Because even though we've never met, we're pretty darn good friends!

We wish you all the best,

- Rob
 
Nick, I'm not too good with words but I wish to tell you what a big difference you've made in my life with your portrayal of Xander. No matter what happens, know that you're a great guy, and I'll always look up to you. Not everyone understand the hardship that you're going through, but I think you are extremely brave in trying to get better. It will not be an easy road, but I wish you the best. And I may be a complete stranger, but know that people are behind you.
 
Nick

Get help, get better! You are important to your family, to your friends, to your fans - all around the World! You are important to yourself. Big hug.
 
Good Fortune to you Nick.

You're a Talented Actor whom I've enjoyed watching in BTVS, Criminal Minds, that TV Movie where you played the Stalker Next Door (Terrible Script and the Lead Actress was Wooden but you were Great!) that Sadly Cancelled TV Show where you played a Chef etc etc.

Know that your Fans have NOT given up on you so don't You give up either! 🙂

I look forward to seeing more of your work.

Omni
 
Yard by yard
Life is hard
Inch by inch
Life's a cinch

Start moving along by inches each day - it has worked for several people I know.
 
BtVS has helped me through some of the hardest times of my life. People that I have met on the Buffy Boards have helped me get through the death of my boyfriend, losing jobs, alcohol and drug dependencies, self harm and long, difficult days and nights when I have been at my lowest and most unlike-able. Sometimes we have rewatched the series while chatting online. One night a girl I met through the Buffy fandom drove to my house, picked me up, and we sung OMWF to each other until I fell asleep after the death of my boyfriend. Sometimes when I was all alone I turned to my BtVS DVD's and my friends from The Scooby Gang were there. BtVS has bought me laughter and joy, courage and strength and a place in the world.

Your portrayal of Xander Harris has helped to literally save my life.

I don't want to preach to you, I understand you don't need to hear it.
I don't want to make you feel guilty, you are not letting any of your fans down.

I do want you to know that there are lots of fans standing behind you.
I do want you to know that I believe in you.
 
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