Mesektet Ra said:
First off, I honestly don't think Buffy was Chosen to receive the power because she was the best. It's hard to tell what kind of girl will get the power. She was just lucky, like Anya said. There were a ton of Potentials when Buffy was Chosen too, it's likely to assume. So, Buffy just the power because she was lucky, not better.
I completely disagree.
Without choosing a capable girl, any lunatic could receive the power. Most people in the world would not sacrifice their lives like Buffy, Faith, Kendra and other countless slayers.
These girls are chosen not only by their genetics but by their heart. Most of us are to selfish to put others before ourselves, but not slayers. Which is why they are slayers. Brave and selfless are those who are chosen.
And though Anya may be cute, quirky and sometimes very insightful, I doubt that we are to take her words as the all-knowing source about slayers.
Mesektet Ra said:
I think Buffy getting kicked out was something she needed. She needed to be knocked down a peg or three. I get the fact that she's the Slayer, she was has to make decisions that gage peoples lives and stuff, but...I have a theory. I think she put herself in a place where that ultimate outcome became 'General von Summers'.
But didn't Buffy have the most experience? Having any other Scooby as the leader (with the possible exception of Giles) would be like the blind leading the blind.
As much as I hate to say it, it was her war. The rest of them chose to be there. The potentials needed her for security reasons and the Scoobies were there because they are good, decent people willing to sacrifice their lives for the greater cause. She was the one chosen to fight this battle and the First Evil sought her out.
Mesektet Ra said:
She's the Slayer, she's the strong one who has to kill the baddies and blahblahbiddyblah. And having friends makes her a unique Slayer, right? So why did the opinions of all her friends never make any difference? I mean, damn, even Slayers need a second opinion. She chose to be in solitude, when it didn't have to be that way. So, she has superpowers. Right. That doesn't make her equipped to handle these types of things on her own. I think a lot of her struggle is attributed to the fact that she made herself be alone, when all she had to do to open herself up to her friends. She automatically assumed no one would understand a 'Slayer problem', and maybe that wasn't the case, if she just talked to someone about it.
Did you ever think she step backed away from the group because she knew what would happen? Buffy herself said that most of the potentials were not likely to survive. Buffy was guarding her emotions and not allowing herself to get attached. And it is not wise for the leader to become too emotional attached to her constituents. Granted she could have made an effort to get to know them, but ultimately it was her decision.
And no other living person, with the exception of Faith, knew what it was like to be her. As much as you want to understand someone else's pain, you really can't grasp it until you have been in their shoes. None of the other Scoobies knew what it was like to have the weight of the world on their shoulders since they were 15.
Mesektet Ra said:
The bottom line is, the decision to go back to the vineyard was a stupid one. Seriously. Look at what happened before. She's pretty much saying, "Hey, let's go get ourselves killed because I want a shiny new toy and I don't have any plan whatsoever." The least she could've done is come up with a plan. And when Buffy is doing something stupid, far be it for anyone to dissuade her. Because she's THE Slayer. She's frickin' omnipotent. And what I don't like more is the fact that the Scoobs her doing something they thought was right, and he get punished for it. It irks me to no end.
Like LadyLavina said, why can't they question authority when they don't agree with it?
Actually Faith's decision to go underground and search for the First's stash was far more dumb. And Buffy DID have plans. She had the potentials divided into groups and didn't take the majority of them in with her at first. Her plan was far more successful than Faith's. And Faith endangered a lot more potentials than Buffy.
It is really odd that the Scoobies would throw her out for taking action. Without Buffy they would have sat around and waited to die.
And re-watch "Dirty Girls", right before lover boy Spike pulls Buffy off Caleb, she was actually kicking his butt. Her emotions were high and she was fighting well. Just had to put that in because she might have actually been able to accomplish something in "Dirty Girls" if not for Spike pulling her off.