I noticed something in this epi. When Spike and Buffy are together, Spike says that she keeps him alive because she likes men that hurt her. She needs the anger to be the slayer. Buffy says that she doesn't hate like that anymore.
But, in S2 episode What's my Line pt 2 when Buffy brought Kendra to her room and was talking to her about their fight, saying how she (Buffy) would've won, Buffy specifically said:
"You feel it, right? How the anger gives you fire? A Slayer needs that."
Thoughts?
I've been trying to find the original article to add here, but it's lost out there in the net forever, I'm afraid. Anyhow. from what I remember of it...
The fire that Buffy is referring to in her conversation with Kendra in Season 2 is, indeed, what set her apart from the average Slayer. Her death at the end of Season 5, however, figuratively extinguished that fire, hence the opening song, "Going Through The Motions," at the beginning of "Once More With Feeling," and, even more specifically, "I Want The Fire Back," later in that episode. From the beginning of Season 6 until the finale of Season 7, Buffy was slowly in the process of returning to the winner's attitude that she had exhibited in the earlier seasons, culminating in the series finale when she finally admits that she loves Spike. The scene in which their hands literally burst into flame without actually burning was Spike's final gift to her. He literally gave Buffy back her fire.
(If this explanation seems slanted slightly toward a particular ship, please remember that it was originally posted on one of the hundreds of thousands of websites dedicated to their relationship)
It's a pretty good explanation, even though we all know that, no matter what Buffy might feel for Spike, she will always love Angel the most.
Day 29. ONE DAY TO GO!!!!