Honestly, it was so long ago that I can't even tell you WHAT made me decide I wanted to read Spander fic. Keep in mind, I've changed a lot in the last ten or twelve years. I've gone from a teenager who's favorite character was Spike and shipped Spuffy like it was going out of fashion to a 30 year old woman who can't stand Spike in any and all incarnations and finds it physically upsetting that I shipped Spuffy in any form. So no, I can't honestly tell you what scene or moment or line made me ship Spander - it just happened.
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It's okay. Wisdom comes with age.