When she said "Bored Now" I couldn't breathe!!! I guess there is more connection to those alternate realities then we realized. I thought this was a great episode, and a marvelous way to set up next week. The tension has never been so thick. And when buffy said, (in the preview for the finale), "I'll show you what a slayer really can do." I totally freaked out. Goosebumps, chills, all of it. Willow's reaction is justified, but she has to be stopped. And she will be, but remember what it was like for her to get over Oz, and he just left. Tara is dead, no coming back from that as we saw. She's gonna have a really rough time.
I think the reason Willow could save Buffy and not tara was that Buffy wasn't dead, dying yes, but not dead. Tara seemed to die instantly. What I was confused on was Willow pulled the bullet out, but why did she instantly heal? Was that Slayer power, or Willow who healed her that fast?