One possible reason that comes to mind is that Joss wanted to make certain that Xander could never seriously qualify as Buffy boyfriend material. Other than Parker, who I try to totally forget about anyhow, Buffy's lovers have been either superhuman or chemically/electronically enhanced and highly motivated warriors. By keeping Xander limited to being "the guy who fixes the windows," with no more skill than a normally experienced street fighter, he is kept out of candidacy for being Buffy's next snuggle puppy. (Sorry, Bander shippers, but that's just what it seems like to me, despite mixed signals from early Season 8)
That's a good point. But since you're talking to a Bander shipper, I have to admit if this is the real reason, then Joss be DAMNED! They didn't have to make him superhuman. I just try to put myself in his place... If I fought alongside peoples and risked my life all the time, I'd most likely try to learn to fight better so I have less chance dying, lol.
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