Oz or Tara for Willow?

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Lets not make this a gay/straight issues, but which relationship do you think was better for whatever reason?

I've never given this much though I just realized how hard a choice this is... I like them both... But I think I'll go with Tara. Willow was a bit older when she was with her so it wasn't very puppy love-ish.

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I'd have to agree and say Tara. They had a very deep connection and they were obviously very much in love. Oz and Willow were really good too but they weren't as strong as Willow and Tara. I mean they both did cheat on each other.
 
I liked both the W/O relationship and the W/T relationship I mean i think they both had there strong and weak points, i loved the Willow and Oz relationship more though i mean he was her first... first alot of things. First real love, she gave him alot of her firsts... They were sweet together, I mean yeah they cheated on each other but they worked it out for the most part... Oz left not because he cheated on willow they would have worked it out. But because he left she had to move on. Thats how i see it... but like i said i loved the W/T relationship too...
 
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Oz and Willow were sweet when they were together, but I definitely like Willow and Tara better. They're sort of... hotter.
 
NightHawk said:
I've never given this much though I just realized how hard a choice this is... I like them both... But I think I'll go with Tara. Willow was a bit older when she was with her so it wasn't very puppy love-ish.
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It wasn't puppy love in a BIG way. The Willow-Tara relationship may have been deeper, but there was a lot of gravity to it too, a lot of destructiveness as well as beauty. Willow and Oz may have cheated on each other, but Willow never bent Oz's mind to her liking, as Willow did in Season 6. And high school Willow destroying the world because of her pain at losing Oz? Granted she did wreak some havoc, among her friends in S4 "Something Blue" after Oz left her, but it was nothing like her rampage at the end of Season 6 when Tara was killed.

So no, I really can't compare the two to say which one was better, because the two relationships were so different.
 
Well, I liked both of the relationships. I couldn't pick either because both helped her to mature and change her (for the better). Both relationships really helped her to become what she is.
 
willow and tara, because there realationship was pure....they loved eachother and they both knew it. they showed it to eachother....little looks...slightest of toutches....( what you see?.....willow hands....) 😀 they were the best couple in buffy.
 
i liked oz with willow but i liked the willow/tara realtionship cuz she grew up from her dorky personality even tho oz did help with it too but tara was the big changer. Willow/Tara ROCK
 
I'm going to say Tara. They seemed for happy together and they had high maturity levels which makes it a heck of alot better. Im staying strong saying that Tillow or Wara is the best couple.
 
I have to go with Willow and Tara. Oz was great but he was still searching for who he was. IMO he was never able to commit to Willow the same way that Tara did. They both loved Willow but Tara bought more to the relationship and made Willow a more confident person.
 
there was alot of jealousy in willow and oz relationship... ( willow and xander- oz and erm...wolf lady...why cant i remember her name.....) but with willow and tara all they were was all for each other 🙂 true love. just slight magic problem... lol 🙂
 
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I think her name was Veruca.
i like oz but tara was definitely the best for willow.their relationship was pure,strong and deep...willow knew that she was really lucky for having tara and when tara died she knew what she had lost.
 
Okay see that's a tough one I believe Oz was truly the best thing that happened to Willow he allowed her to come out of her shell and expand as a person he also taught her to love. But at the same time I think Willow really loved Tara more then Oz. I don't think that either one of them wasn't meant to be with her I think they were both good for her when they were around so you can't actually pick. I think that once Tara had died Willow would eventually go back to Oz. I don't think she was a fully fledged lesbian after Tara I think she was more if she loved someone she'd go for it I don't think she looked at gender but anyway that's what I think.
 
I love OZ! And when I say love, I mean love!

But I'd have to go with Tara. I t was just something about her.
That's why I was totally pissed when she died.

Tara and Willow made a bigger impact on me than Oz and Willow.
 
definately oz. i know willow was older when she met tara, but her and oz's love was more powerful. they were perfect for each other; they balanced each other out. most importantly, their relationship sprung from friendship. they were comfortable with each other and it wasnt all about passion, like willow and tara's relationship.

and so what if they cheated on each other? they went through more trials but they survived through them. oz forgave willow for the xander fluke and willow forgave him for the veruca thing. never once did they leave each other for good like tara left willow - and that was mostly because she was scared. willow and oz's love was never forced - did you ever see willow hypnotizing oz into forgetting an argument?

plus, we all saw what happened to willow when oz left. the only reason she went dark willow after tara's death was because her magic obsession was already rising to an explosion point. had oz died i doubt even xander would've been able to stop willow.

so all in all, i say willoz was the best relationship. and i cling to the dream that they'll reunite sometime when willow's travelling the world - but that's just me.
 
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