I mean this in the friendliest of ways possible (seriously
😛), but I am going to absolutely shred this. I'm sorry, but I can't help myself here.
OK so what exactly would be the basis for her being relieved of command? She went to the enemy and engaged which is part of war. She then saw that they were being decimated and called a retreat another part of war. I don't understand what the problem was with that. I mean really it seems that because the guy turned out to be strong and things went wrong that all of a sudden that is buffy's fault.
It is absolutely Buffy's fault. Yes, general engagement is part of war, but it is in no way a predetermined requisite of it. No successful military will attack an enemy, especially one you have zero intelligence on, just because. That's dumb, on a mind-numbing scale. You don't engage just to engage. There has to be a purpose behind it. There has to be a reason for doing so, an objective. Otherwise you're just a fool, and you will get destroyed, which is exactly what happened to Buffy. She made no attempt to convene any sort of reconnaissance on Caleb or the vineyard. She fell into the most basic trap ever ("he said he has something of yours." "I want it back! Let's go!". Seriously?), without even considering other options.
Things go wrong all the time in war, even with the best laid plans. That's true. But that doesn't mean you don't do your best to account for everything possible. Buffy didn't even try. She didn't know what Caleb looked like, who he worked for, what he wanted, what he was capable of, what exactly of "hers" he had, why he was in Sunnydale, how he got there, if he had backup, what the layout of the vineyard was, what to do if things went wrong, or even if she was bringing the right people to the vineyard (seriously, why wasn't Willow there? You leave your most powerful weapon to guard your rear?). She only lived because of plot magic; because Caleb and The First were too dumb to pursue her. Had they done, Buffy and her team would have been decimated.
I think it is crazy buffy did what buffy does and that is find the big bad and attack it just turns out he was more powerful than anyone of them had any way of knowing. So the better thing to do instead of going back would be what? Sitting there like scared bunnies and wait for Caleb to come to them and catch them off guard? Or maybe pick them off one by one? How about what Faith did and go and get everyone blown up and attacked by uber vamps? I am not saying Faith was wrong to lead them there either she got info and went with it same as Buffy did going to the vineyard.
Leadership is not "find the big bad and attack it", especially when Buffy has other considerations that she didn't in the past. This isn't S1. Now, she has to protect the Potentials, a group of wildly unpredictable, untrained and unreliable people who don't like or trust her all that much to begin with.
Think back on the series. How does Buffy defeat previous opponents who have her outgunned and outmanned? She uses her head. The Judge vastly outpowered her, so she blew him up. The Mayor was invincible prior to his Ascension, so she waited, timed her approach to perfection, and then blew him up. She doesn't even think with Caleb. Faith is hardly better. She's a terrible leader and the definition of unreliable, but at least she attempted to think tactically.
And Buffy's idea to go back not only did it make perfect sense because the bad guys go where the power is and they were at the vineyard but it also turned out to be right and she got the scythe. Basically they were going to have to face Caleb again regardless so why not make it on there own terms with a goal in mind instead of waiting for him to come slaughter them.
Well for starters, the Scythe was largely irrelevant to the defeat of the Turok-Han. At best it acted as a safety valve in case The First advanced past Sunnydale, where there would be Slayer resistance. Spike, Angel, W&H and the amulet saved the world. Buffy had nothing to do with it. We are never shown how the amulet was activated, so we can't really know otherwise.
You're right, a showdown with Caleb was inevitable. But that doesn't mean you just say "charge". The scythe was there, yes, but Buffy's "plan" was to replicate the exact same operation that got her team maimed and killed in the first place. And hell, we see a few episodes later that she WAS wrong. She didn't need to just hammer her way in to the vineyard. She has no capability of even doing so. What was she intending to go differently? Her, Faith and Spike all got whipped by Caleb. What was she expecting the second time around? She gets the scythe herself when she finally goes back!
And no one is suggesting she just allow Caleb to come kill them. Caleb and The First, for big bads, are pretty stupid. Buffy didn't even take that into account, or try anything other than just throwing more people up against him. Just saying she is the Slayer and this is what she does doesn't hold water.
Please don't feel like I am attacking you I know sometimes I can come on a little strong I just don't understand what the problem is with what Buffy did.
Don't worry, you're not attacking me at all
🙂. I hope I don't come across that way either. It wouldn't be much of a discussion board if we all agreed all the time
🙂. I hope I've articulated my points well.