To be honest, I don't understand self-identified race. Like, I understand being interested in, enjoying and wanting to immerse yourself in another culture that you're interested in and love; but does that love make you part of that race or nationality simply based on your feelings?
This reminds me of
Rachel Dolezal; while I believe she respected, loved and wanted to be apart of the black community I don't know that someone who grew up as a white female in America can truly be apart of a minority group that faces difficulties that she wouldn't have experienced as a white female.
I hope I don't sound like an ass, I just genuinely don't understand it.
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Rachel Dolezal sprang into my mind too when I read this. I think her reasons behind doing what she did were positive (in that she felt they were positive), but it's clear she offended both her white family in essentially denouncing them and also offended some African American communities by her lies. I don't agree with how she was vilified by the press though, she didn't do it to be offensive, but she was not raised as part of the black community, so how could she truly understand that community?
Whilst I understand the premise of what you're saying
@vellavu I think it's important to differentiate a sense of self and a sense of being. This is how I see it (I'm not saying your view is wrong and mine is right, this is just my view)
Your ancestry defines who you are. It tells you where you came from, your history. Your parents, grandparents, their stories and experiences create you, but you can't change your past, or your families past. You could say
"I'm a native American born with an European body"
But you're not. Because unless you have that native American within your lineage, that's not your personal history. How can you identify with something you or your ancestors have never experienced? I agree we should all immerse ourselves in different cultures, understand their history, but just because you know their history, it doesn't make you one of them just by willing it so.
Your gender, on the other hand, doesn't define who you are. You can be born one gender and actually be another, because that's nothing to do with your past and everything to do with your future. You can experience first hand being a woman, but actually being a man, because that's who you are, and that experience is then passed down to your children and your childrens' children.
You can't change the past, (unless they invent time machines, but that opens up a whole new can of worms with time paradoxes and such), but you can change the future. In an ideal world, we'd all appreciate each other a little more, but it's our different cultures and rich histories that make us unique as a species.