K, so I like both ships. I know, I know. But deep, deep down inside, I prefer Bangel. If it all ever comes to a true end, I want a fairytale ending, with Buffy and Angel. I never get tired of watching "IWRY". Never!
While Spuffy was a "mature" relationship, it lacked that magic/chemistry, for me, that Buffy and Angel had. We don't know what a mature relationship would have been like with Buffy and Angel, because they weren't given the chance. And it seems like it will be a long time coming, if ever, before we see it. (haha, like that quote? Thought ya did!)
Seeing as how Angel and Spike both are at IDW and Buffy is with DH, then I think both us Bangels and Spuffies are s.o.l. in the canon department. We must resort to our fanfic, for the fairytale we want.
If, I can't have Angel or Spike end up with Buffy, then I would rather see a new guy brought in to steal her heart. Maybe a male slayer, that would be pretty cool. Ok, I'll turn the rambling off now.