The death of lisa "left eye" lopez, shocking!

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Yeah, you never expect it. Ever. Now I'm going to start quoting people again! "God takes no one before their time."--Johnathan and i forget his last name. I always remember quotes, but I never remember who says what. I just go that quote from the movie Selma, Lord Selma. Very sad movie. I cried sooooo much. And it was based on a true story. Anyways, back to the point. I agree with April Bot.
 
Originally posted by ashley*marie

and now onto a happier note! (see i can be nice!) 🙂

Spike Lover-- Yes, I totally agree with u. I am entitled to my own opinion and fake sympathy is worse than lying. "Honesty is the best policy"--Benjamin Fraklin. i just love quoting people.... i just wanted to thank u though for not ganging up on me and saying that i'm entitled to my own opinion. I also loved how u did say something to me about my comment about feeling no sympathy for lisa, but u said it in a nice way. all u said was i could of been nicer about it. that's enough for me. i'm such an obedient person. i just loved how u told me right without being mean about it. i also loved how u ended the fight.

Your welcome 🙂
I hate fights! Lets all just show our respect to a brilliant and talented artist.
Its always sad when someone dies, but when they are so young - i agree, its a shock and a tragic waste of life 🙁
 
okay then fave LLL moment /song .toss up between "waterfalls" or burning down her boyfriends,now that was genius!
 
Originally posted by ashley*marie
I don't mean to change the subject, but I just have to say one thing. If you have a responce you could PM.

Charlie Angel-- I am NOT a heartless, non-respecting person. I would go into a fight w/ u about that, but I don't wanna get the whole board involved. PM's work miracles.

i just wanted to thank u though for not ganging up on me and saying that i'm entitled to my own opinion.


Hmm personally I think that you were trying to provoke a response from your post. Otherwise why would you intentionally write such insulting and upsetting words in a post about somebody who tragically died... in a thread where so many of her fans had posted. Did you believe that nobody was going to disagree with that kind of statement? I'm sorry but I don't believe that for one second and I was offended by your post.

Don't be so patronising telling me to have taken it to pm.. you posted that in a public forum where anyboy can read or respond to it. I disagreed hence the reply. Maybe you should have thought twice before posting something so vicious like that?

I am not planning on having a *fight* with you, I am simply stating my opinions on your own comments. Why do you automatically use a defense mechanism of saying "i'm not saying anything more because I don't want the board to get involved". I am a big girl as I'm sure you are as well. As an individual I can argue my point as you can without getting others involved. I didn't ask anybody to reply or agree with my replies, they were my own thoughts on the matter. Why do you assume people's individual differences and characteristics would make a sort of fight on the boards??? Trust me there have been discussions 10 times more heated than this.

Yes you are entitled to your own opinion...but explain this to me, if gunn is agreeing with you and others are agreeing with me what is the difference? Nobody is *ganging* up on anybody, its all everybodys own opinions... if your entitled to an opinion why wouldn't every other individual be allowed one?

Also only because I am disagreeing with you that doesn't make me a bad person. No offence but it does seem childish to thank and *hug* members who agreed with you. I'm just not the conforming type, I have my own opinion and I stick to it.

I do apologise for my heartless comments however, but that was my initial emotional response to them. I shouldn't have berated your character and I am sorry for that, but I do think I had the best intentions at heart. I just hope you realise how your post could have really angered people because it was disrespectful.

I am sure you feel that this should have been in a pm but its just my response to a post (well 2 😉). I don't have any bad feelings towards you and if I did have a major problem I would either ignore your posts or contact you 🙂 If you wish to reply through pm as they do work miracles 😛 then thats fine but I havn't a problem with you replying here if you find the need to. As far as I'm concerned theres not really much left to say. Once again sorry if my first post was a bit crazy 🙂
 
Yes your first post was a bit crazy, but now I forgive you. You apologized to me and I accept. And now, it is my turn to apologize to you. Sorry.
 
I'd love to comment on the Sorry thing but I won't.. Just Ashley*Marie think before you post.
 
Also Monday, Lopes' personal assistant, Stephanie Patterson, talked publicly for the first time about another car accident involving her and Lopes, in which a young Honduran boy died. The April 6 accident came to light Sunday in an Honduran newspaper.

The accident was not reported to legal authorities, and Lopes paid for the boy's medical care and funeral and also gave the family money.

"We were following the procedures of Honduras," Patterson said. "We weren't trying to hide anything. There was no need for us to report it to the police."

Patterson said she was driving a rental SUV at highway speed on a relatively empty stretch of a four-lane road to the airport in San Pedro Sula. In her headlights, she saw a group of people crossing the road. But the 10-year-old boy, Bayron Isaul Fuentes Lopez, lagged behind in the median.

He stepped off the curb unexpectedly, Patterson said, and the car she was driving hit him.

She said she instantly backed up and was told that ambulances are not automatically disptached in Honduras, so they placed the boy in the back of the vehicle. The boy's cousin drove to the nearest hospital about 10 minutes away.

Lopes, Patterson recalled, "was a rock. She was just trying to calm everyone down. She doesn't get very emotional in situations like that. She truly believes in karma and everything happens for a reason."

At the hospital, Patterson said, "They weren't even willing to help the boy until the hospital bill was prepaid," so Lopes furnished her credit card. Doctors said the boy was dying and nothing could be done. Lopes insisted on a better facility with an intensive care unit.

The boy arrived at the second hospital in the middle of the night, and doctors recommended they let Bayron rest, Patterson said. The next morning, she said, he had worsened and was in a coma. Doctors performed more tests and concluded he was brain dead. The family decided to take him off life support.

"We had an attorney advising us on policies and procedures in Honduras," Patterson said.

Patterson said she was surprised that the family didn't blame her. The mother "was just so amazed we didn't drive away and that we tried to help the situation," she said.

She said the family treated her and Lopes with more cordiality than she expected. "It was like we'd known them all our lives," she said. They eventually filed a sworn statement in the courts, she said, and the family did not press charges. In fact, Patterson said Lopes had to push hard for the family to take an additional $925 on top of the $3,700 she paid for medical expenses and funeral arrangements.
 
Awwww - she was such a sweetie, im gonna 😀 thinking of her memory instead of getting upset coz i think thats a nice way to remember someone!
Outta interest, who looked at the photo? I definetly didnt. I think that i had a certain curiousity as most people would but i would never do it. Why? Coz i think its disrespectful to her momry and an insult to her that the picture was taken never mind posted on the internet. I actually think its disgusting and wouldnt play a part in that.
 
i did purely becuase, as you said curiosity and that there was a newspaper article about it, i've got to say how awful the picture was and the coffin it looked as though noone cared
 
Could you actually tell it was her?
To be fair, her coffin will have been in honduras - give it some time to be cared for.
I just couldnt bring myself to look at the photo - i think its horrific it was even taken.
 
Do you not think it was disgraceful someone even took it, never mind that we can all view it? I think its quite sick.
 
In all honesty I looked, and didn't think it was her. It was probably a leaked photo if it is of her, becuse that sort of photo should only have been released by family/friends. But I looked briefly, but wasn't sure. The images have been taken down now, but they are still up on another website.
 
awww, that's so sad::crying:: i'm really going to miss her, she was a great singer, and i'm sure we'll all remember her ::crying::

~ Harmony
 
Originally posted by Willow
In all honesty I looked, and didn't think it was her. It was probably a leaked photo if it is of her, becuse that sort of photo should only have been released by family/friends. But I looked briefly, but wasn't sure. The images have been taken down now, but they are still up on another website.

At least you are honest. I dont think the family have this photo - i think someone sick took it, like they did of Princess Dianna when she dies and tried to sell it to newspapers. I just cant bring myself to look though, yet of course a certain curiousity still holds me.
 
I saw the pic. At first I thought it would be real nasty and it wouldn't even resemble a human figure, but I was totally wrong. She does look bad. From what I saw I could see a beat up looking face with scabs on it.
 
I can't believe anyone would be sick enough to even go look to see if it is her or not!

In my opinion it is also very disrepectful too.
 
I'm sorry but i have deleted the link to the picture. The boards are not the place for material such as this, and we should respect her life and her family's
 
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