InsaneMystic
Ex-Scooby
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- Apr 1, 2008
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I haven't posted in here yet, as most of the stuff I could write in here I've posted in one thread or another on this board already. I won't repeat it now in concentrated form either.
One honest thing I feel I should say about the thread itself, though. I don't feel too good about the whole concept. There's so much stuff concentrated here, uncommented, that could send you spinning into co-dependent reactions. Yes, it's therapeutic talking about stuff. But it can also provoke co-dep emotional turmoil that feed an unhealthy "romantic" attraction if you're vulnerable to that. Indeed, being one of those vulnerables, I feel the "fishing hooks" already, and I'm glad that I'm on medication or I else might be spinning down sick attraction to a number of you gals right now.
While I know that it's my responsibility to stay away from the thread if it doesn't do me or my relation to any of you more harm then good, I'm afraid not everyone has the level of self-awareness and -criticism I watch my own reactions with, so you might easily lay the seed for sick stuff happening here. I'll join Lou's call for "please take care of yourself".
One honest thing I feel I should say about the thread itself, though. I don't feel too good about the whole concept. There's so much stuff concentrated here, uncommented, that could send you spinning into co-dependent reactions. Yes, it's therapeutic talking about stuff. But it can also provoke co-dep emotional turmoil that feed an unhealthy "romantic" attraction if you're vulnerable to that. Indeed, being one of those vulnerables, I feel the "fishing hooks" already, and I'm glad that I'm on medication or I else might be spinning down sick attraction to a number of you gals right now.
While I know that it's my responsibility to stay away from the thread if it doesn't do me or my relation to any of you more harm then good, I'm afraid not everyone has the level of self-awareness and -criticism I watch my own reactions with, so you might easily lay the seed for sick stuff happening here. I'll join Lou's call for "please take care of yourself".
BuffyElevated
Very well said...