The Human Soul and Altruism

Kana

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I know this subject has been touched upon but I was discussing with some friends at work about whether a totally selfish act can exist. Egoism can always be argued for any act in as much as it satifies some sort of desire. In general, it is unlikely a individual would ever commit an act that makes them feel bad without some feelings of positivity that they were doing something positive.

Now soullessSpike was often commiting acts of heroism, even if it was for Buffy's sake. These acts are sometimes called selfish but for what reason? He was more or less selfless as far the Summers women were concerned.

Now soulled beings of course get the satisfaction of doing so called good deeds because they have souls. It's the soul that gives them positive feelings if they do a deed that benefits someone else and and it's the soul that punishes them if they to do a deed that harms another. So when you think about it, it really calls into question the whole altruism thing especially regarding Spike who has always been called selfish because of his lack of soul.

So are there any examples of totally selfless deeds within the Verse and how does the soul influence this and if it gives them the warm fuzzies isn't it really selfish?
 
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Interesting thread topic!
Kana,

I do not think there is a selfish act period- save sacrificing yourself for another, because any act will have consequences and results and there will always be blowback. It depends on how you wish to define the term selfless. If you define it as doing an act without conscious thought of getting something in return, then yes possibly there is; but a true selfless really does not exist. Now you could argue we subconsciously know this, know we will in some way, shape or form get something back and our subconscious influences our conscious to make what would normally be called a selfless act. I think we are too entwined with one another for us not to hear the tree fall in the forest. Sorry if I got off topic.
 
crazysoulless
crazysoulless
I think someone said that to Phoebe on Friends. And she spent the episode trying to do prove that person wrong but couldn't.
This makes me think of the episode of Friends when Joey tells Phoebe there's no such thing as a selfless good deed, because the good deed doer will always feel good for having done something good.
 
Skanky Vamp
Skanky Vamp
damn, look at what I missed out by not watching Friends™
Kean
Kean
I went straight to Friends too!
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crazysoulless
crazysoulless
That is so funny. I wrote that in response to the post before this one and then I scroll down and the very next post mentions the Friends ep. ha ha
In extreme cases, like natural disasters or war, I think some - but few - can prove themselves capable of acts done purely to save others. These people are far from the norm, though.
 
Now soulled beings of course get the satisfaction of doing so called good deeds because they have souls. It's the soul that gives them positive feelings if they do a deed that benefits someone else and and it's the soul that punishes them if they to do a deed that harms another. So when you think about it, it really calls into question the whole altruism thing especially regarding Spike who has always been called selfish because of his lack of soul.


As much as I love BUFFY, I have always viewed Joss Whedon's interpretation of the soul as a load of crap. I don't see having a soul as a sign that an individual is capable of being altruistic. I feel that is nothing more than a myth created by humans to make themselves believe they are superior to other beings. In fact, I don't believe anyone is capable of true altruism, anyway. There is always some form of selfishness behind a good deed.
 
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I disagree with the last sentence, but I agree with the rest.
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Joan the Vampire Slayer
Exactly. Even if a man saves a baby from a burning building, he's still going to feel good about it later.
The only truly altruistic act is one that no-one will ever know about, but since no-one will ever know about it... You see where I'm going with this.
Yep.
Tree falls in the forest... does it make a sound if no one hears it. [Although, if you try really hard you can make the sound of 1 hand clapping, just really softly].

For Buffy, the closest this ever came into being was The Zeppo. Xander's reasons don't really fit the criteria though, per se. That the event passed into the ether with none the wiser is the hazy area.

He was just feeling really useless to the group since no one wanted him around. So if the bomb went off, no big loss to his world. I mean, he even got laid right beforehand.
He was ready to go as that was as good as it was going to get.

Even Angel, with his I Will Remember You episode was explicitly told not to divulge what had happened to anyone. What does he do? Spills the beans to Doyle looking for something in response almost immediately afterward.

In extreme cases, like natural disasters or war, I think some - but few - can prove themselves capable of acts done purely to save others
But they always manage to end up on Oprah, local newschannels or somesuch (or even movie of the week if it was really nifty) and making a buck from it, don't they?

Even the military gives out ceremonious awards and pomp/pagentry for those acts which are normally worn on a dress uniform as neon signs (look what I did!). Some choose not to wear them, but that's not very common.
 
Many people do things for others, without any regard for personal gain. Afterwards though that is a different story altogether.
And the statement its good for the soul? What is a soul? A bit of religious crap, something to make some religious people feel good about their superiority over the animals.
As for a vampire with a soul not doing bad things, making out that not having a soul is the reason why bad things are done.
That being so, what is the view of a person with a soul killing something with out a soul?
It can't be that having a soul will stop a person from wanting to kill, did Giles know that Ben did or didn't have a soul when he killed him?
Presumably those of The Knights of Byzantium knew that Buffy had a soul, but it didn't stop them from trying to get her.
Warren tried to kill Buffy and killed Tara.
If a soul stops a person from killing, if a person is going to kill, then surely the soul would have to leave the body before the first thoughts are of killing another. But that concept is flawed as the soul would need to have prior knowledge; or is the soul ok with wanting to kill, just not the act of killing.
 
If a soul stops a person from killing, if a person is going to kill, then surely the soul would have to leave the body before the first thoughts are of killing another. But that concept is flawed as the soul would need to have prior knowledge; or is the soul ok with wanting to kill, just not the act of killing.

I think the point is that the soul makes a person feel guilt. In terms of a buffyverse vamp, the demon is the id, the human is the ego & the soul would be the super-ego. With no super-ego to slap the other two down, the creature is purely driven by the pleasure principle & given the animalistic need to hunt & kill, their actions are entirely understandable.
 
It's a commonly held theory (from what I know) that everything we do is selfish. We speak so others will listen to and respond to US. We do good deeds for others so WE feel good. I think that's BS, but it is an interesting point, if only to show how subjective the terms are. I think Spike did some selfless things presoul and some selfish things postsoul. Presoul, of course, points at Intervention where he is willing to lay down his life to keep Dawn safe. And he wasn't even going to tell Buffy (from what I can tell), showing he expected nothing in return. If that's not selfless, I don't really know what is.
 
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That's done it! You've mentioned Spike, he who is the exemption to the rule, possibly every rule.
When Spike took that shotgun to kill Buffy, but then seeing her sat on the steps grieving for her mother being ill, he stopped what he was doing to comfort her. Did he ask for something in return?
Did he complain about getting nothing in return?
When Joyce died he left some flowers for her. Was there a reason for that?
When Angel told Darla he had never loved her in the 150 years they were together, saying he couldn't because he didn't have a soul.
Well,
Spike didn't have a soul when he loved Drusilla.
Fairly sure he didn't have a soul when he started to fall for Buffy.

pieceofgosa.
That thing about a persons ID.
I wonder how a psyciatrist would relate to a vampire with a soul having an actual inner demon? A vampire without a soul.
 
But they always manage to end up on Oprah, local newschannels or somesuch (or even movie of the week if it was really nifty) and making a buck from it, don't they?

There are rather a few things in the world that the talk show hosts never hear about, or never care about. And besides, the doer of such deeds in a crisis may very well end up dead. Remember the tsunami in 2002? Remember the Haiti earthquake? Remember Beslan, Rwanda, are you familiar with the situation in Gaza? The situations reach the headlines, but very few individuals do. In situations like these some people show the courage to do what is right, what is needed, even if it means great risk to themselves and no glory afterwards. (I don't count doing it for religion or for their own children as selfless to the point of altruism, though.)
 
Ok I honestly didn't know I'd get so many replies, but Kana is happy.

I do not think there is a selfish act period- save sacrificing yourself for another, because any act will have consequences and results and there will always be blowback.

Sorry do you mean, that you don't believe there is a selfish or selfless act. Having a bit of trouble understanding based upon the context.

Now you could argue we subconsciously know this, know we will in some way, shape or form get something back and our subconscious influences our conscious to make what would normally be called a selfless act. I think we are too entwined with one another for us not to hear the tree fall in the forest. Sorry if I got off topic.

Well this is it really isn't it. At the very least, we feel good that we are doing something that benefits someone else and the feeling good in itself is a positive consequence for ourselves whether we choose to recognise it or not.

This makes me think of the episode of Friends when Joey tells Phoebe there's no such thing as a selfless good deed, because the good deed doer will always feel good for having done something good.

Are we really living in a world where Joey is right? lol

In extreme cases, like natural disasters or war, I think some - but few - can prove themselves capable of acts done purely to save others. These people are far from the norm, though.
But does this break our rule of something that is at least mutually beneficial. Presumably helping others will make you feel something positive, otherwise why would you do it?

As much as I love BUFFY, I have always viewed Joss Whedon's interpretation of the soul as a load of crap. I don't see having a soul as a sign that an individual is capable of being altruistic. I feel that is nothing more than a myth created by humans to make themselves believe they are superior to other beings. In fact, I don't believe anyone is capable of true altruism, anyway. There is always some form of selfishness behind a good deed.

It's interesting isn't it? I've always tried to analyse the nature of vampires in the Verse. Now I agreed with concept that in the grand scheme of things it's difficult to judge vampires as morally inferior to humans or even to judge vampires at all. The best explanation I could muster is that vampires are different psychologically from humans. That is to say if you take a vampire, he or she would be more likely to kill a human without remorse than another human would. The reasoning behind it is perhaps the one that is flawed and it's possible for vampires to act to benefit a human, so when we destroy the concept of altruism, the concept of the soul begins to elude us.

The only truly altruistic act is one that no-one will ever know about, but since no-one will ever know about it... You see where I'm going with this.

But you as the person who acted will know and it can benefit you by knowing it.

Yep.
Tree falls in the forest... does it make a sound if no one hears it. [Although, if you try really hard you can make the sound of 1 hand clapping, just really softly].

For Buffy, the closest this ever came into being was The Zeppo. Xander's reasons don't really fit the criteria though, per se. That the event passed into the ether with none the wiser is the hazy area.

He was just feeling really useless to the group since no one wanted him around. So if the bomb went off, no big loss to his world. I mean, he even got laid right beforehand.
He was ready to go as that was as good as it was going to get.

I think it definitely benefited Xander in terms of his self esteem.

Many people do things for others, without any regard for personal gain. Afterwards though that is a different story altogether.
And the statement its good for the soul? What is a soul? A bit of religious crap, something to make some religious people feel good about their superiority over the animals.

To be clear, in RL I don't believe in soul but I suppose what I've tried to do is reconcile the idea of the metaphysical make up of the Buffyverse human with that of a RL human and see where it gets us.

As for a vampire with a soul not doing bad things, making out that not having a soul is the reason why bad things are done.
That being so, what is the view of a person with a soul killing something with out a soul?

It's also looking at why it happens. The reason why I focus on vampires is because they are so close to the human species. Culture wise, personal traits etc, so why is it if you take an average human who doesn't harm a fly, turn them into a vampire and they become someone who hunts their former species almost regardless of the sentiment you'd think they feel from the memories they retain?

Giles made a crude comparison between human and demon nature: He posited that when humans kill the reasoning behind it is more complex. It may be religion, personal hatred or rage but for most vampires they don't need a reason, they just need to be hungry.

It can't be that having a soul will stop a person from wanting to kill, did Giles know that Ben did or didn't have a soul when he killed him?
Presumably those of The Knights of Byzantium knew that Buffy had a soul, but it didn't stop them from trying to get her.
Warren tried to kill Buffy and killed Tara.
If a soul stops a person from killing, if a person is going to kill, then surely the soul would have to leave the body before the first thoughts are of killing another. But that concept is flawed as the soul would need to have prior knowledge; or is the soul ok with wanting to kill, just not the act of killing.

Indeed and with the examples you gave it goes beyond simple bloodlust of passion for destruction which some demons thrive on. We've established we are not going to elevate humans morally but can we at least attempt to understand why a human would do something and why a vampire would? And does the concept of altruism exist for either one of them?

I think the point is that the soul makes a person feel guilt. In terms of a buffyverse vamp, the demon is the id, the human is the ego & the soul would be the super-ego. With no super-ego to slap the other two down, the creature is purely driven by the pleasure principle & given the animalistic need to hunt & kill, their actions are entirely understandable.

If I understand correctly, a vamp would comprise of the ego and the id, but it becomes complex when a vampire start having almost religious beliefs about their cause. It seems that although similar to our own vampire culture can parallel or even contradict a lot of human moral culture. The id is like the thing we see in Pylea but the rest of the vampire's psyche but Freudian model is still one of the most popular when describing the psychological disposition because it seems to fit so well.

It's a commonly held theory (from what I know) that everything we do is selfish. We speak so others will listen to and respond to US. We do good deeds for others so WE feel good. I think that's BS, but it is an interesting point, if only to show how subjective the terms are. I think Spike did some selfless things presoul and some selfish things postsoul. Presoul, of course, points at Intervention where he is willing to lay down his life to keep Dawn safe. And he wasn't even going to tell Buffy (from what I can tell), showing he expected nothing in return. If that's not selfless, I don't really know what is.

I think this is possibly the closest thing to my belief although on the surface it may appear to contradict what you're saying. There may be certain actions that work in terms of mutual benefit which is at least adequate when judging an action morally. The very desire that is satisfied by doing a deed that benefits other but so what? The conversation perhaps becomes almost academic however it does place the soul under the microscope. Even if Spike is a rare case it's still possible and even if vampires are unsympathetic to humans, they may not always be with their own species which calls humans' actions into question"¦.hmmmm.
 
Skanky Vamp
Skanky Vamp
sorry.. for some reason when I tried to type selfless it always came out shelfish.. i was having troubles typing yesterday
Nice thread! This topic has always interested me, seeing how it so closely affects my favorite character.

In general, I think acts are a mixture of selfish and selfless. Dying for someone is selfless at first glance, but then you have to think of all that went into that decision. Perhaps it was made because the person giving their life couldn’t live without the person they were dying for--partly selfish and partly selfless. Dean Winchester's a good example of this one, if anybody watches Supernatural. He sacrificed himself for his brother because he couldn't live in a world where his brother wasn't. Buffy's motivations for dying are interesting, too. Partly to save Dawn, but also partly, I think, because she wanted the release and freedom of death ("You're going to want it"). So her act was both selfish and selfless.

Funnily enough, I do find some of Spike's acts to be best examples of selflessness. Withstanding torture for Dawn and Buffy, obviously, but also just fighting for Buffy at all. He was looking at an eternity in Hell for his trouble if he died, and he knew she could never love him. He did say she “treats [him] like a man,” so perhaps there’s a selfish angle in that. He liked being included and being a person she depended on, but he also loved her and therefore felt compelled to fight with her. Selfish and selfless.

I don’t think it’s a bad thing that good acts aren’t completely selfless. We are all motivated by ourselves—our needs, our desires, our emotions, our thoughts. We view the world through our own lens, so of course that is going to motivate what we do. Humans are selfish by nature. However, it’s when emotions like love and faith and the desire to do good things come into play that we overcome those tendencies. We can’t eradicate selfishness completely, but we can do well with the right motivation.
 
Just a thing: I don't believe in the soul, either. What I'm talking about is clearly in the context of the Buffyverse and its concepts of soul. I just didn't want anyone getting the wrong idea... not that a soul is a wrong idea... grr. You get what I mean.

Anyway, in Judaism, there was this guy a while back who came up with the levels of tzidaka, which are good deads. I believe the lowest level is not giving. And then there's giving grudgingly, knowing where it's going and knowing that the person benefitted will know it was you. Acording to this guy, the greatest act of tzidaka is when you willingly give without knowing to whom and where the recipiant doesn't know you were the one that gave. By that definition, it seems like the ultimate selflessness (as far as it is possible to be) would be kindess for the sake of kindness. Not knowing for whom, not expected anything in return: just doing good.
 
But does this break our rule of something that is at least mutually beneficial. Presumably helping others will make you feel something positive, otherwise why would you do it?

Because it is right. I don't think "feeling something positive" is enough to make risking your life for a stranger a not-altruistic act. And some people are actually willing to do that.
 
Because it is right.

But would you not feel righteous? And when you are truly righteous in an exaggerated situation, not talking the daily flotsam and jetsam, but when you have done something 'just because it is right' dont you feel a bit righteous? is that not a good thing? Would that not be 'getting something' from it?
 
But would you not feel righteous? And when you are truly righteous in an exaggerated situation, not talking the daily flotsam and jetsam, but when you have done something 'just because it is right' dont you feel a bit righteous? is that not a good thing? Would that not be 'getting something' from it?

Oh, I would probably feel so righteous that you couldn't stand being anywhere close to me. I am not everybody, though, I firmly believe that there are less self-oriented people than me to be found. Also, I think the gratification must to some extent match the scale of what the person chooses to give up or risk for it not to be altruistic. I'd say that pulling someone else's child out from the waves, the rubble, the fire, the whathaveyou and die in the process is pretty darn altruistic even if theres' a moment of righteousness. (It is not altruistic in my book, though, if it's done for religious reasons.)

Jeez! I need to sleep. My English is all muddled.

I still want to briefly mention my grandmother before going to bed. She's been in my head all day after reading this thread. For as long as I can recall she's given away considerable part of her pension to various charities and organisations such as SOS children's villages. As far as I've gathered, she's just concluded that "I have more than I need, they have less than they need, so I'll share." Nothing more, nothing less.
 
I still want to briefly mention my grandmother before going to bed. She's been in my head all day after reading this thread. For as long as I can recall she's given away considerable part of her pension to various charities and organisations such as SOS children's villages. As far as I've gathered, she's just concluded that "I have more than I need, they have less than they need, so I'll share." Nothing more, nothing less.


Perhaps one of the reasons she did this was to feel good about herself. And righteous.


Presoul, of course, points at Intervention where he is willing to lay down his life to keep Dawn safe. And he wasn't even going to tell Buffy (from what I can tell), showing he expected nothing in return. If that's not selfless, I don't really know what is.

It's not selfless. Spike did that because he personally cared about Buffy and Dawn.
 
I still want to briefly mention my grandmother before going to bed. She's been in my head all day after reading this thread. For as long as I can recall she's given away considerable part of her pension to various charities and organisations such as SOS children's villages. As far as I've gathered, she's just concluded that "I have more than I need, they have less than they need, so I'll share." Nothing more, nothing less.

That's great and pretty inspiring, what a great lady. Love of others is a rare trait these days. 🙂
 
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