The importance of Friends

[Wanabee-slayer]

See friends are definately necessary to keep us sane and happy.

 

[Angels baby101]

Friends are great...Most of my friends i consider family and would do anything for.... they keep me sain, The people on BB are great...everyone has different personalitys and its amazing how people with such different personality's can come on here and its like they are best friends its great... I've always loved comming on here not only cause of the shows it supports but because of the members and the staff... They are amazing. They make the boards worth comming to...

Friends are always Much appriciated 😀

 

[Wanabee-slayer]

Go Angel's Baby It's really nice what you said and true. But I think thta's what's important about friendship although you're 2 completely different people you're able to come together and build this amazing bond.

 

[Cohen]

unless the bond is being ripped right in front of your eyes...
oh look...the eternal optimist in me has turned pessimist. Great. I'll never be the same.

 

[Wanabee-slayer]

I'm sorry to hear that but as I said before I'm always here I like making new friends it's what I live for.

 

[Winifred]

My friends mean the world to me. But we don't talk or see each other as often as we'd like. They've been there for me through all my trials and tribulations, even though we don't communicate that often. I know that makes no sense, but I suppose the relationship that I have with my friend's, aren't like most.

I can count the amount of close friends on less than one hand. Those are the people I trust with my life. They're the people that will be my shoulder to cry on and will be completely honest with me, no matter what the outcome. I have a lot of friends, but I wouldn't share with all of them my secrets. I guess my life isn't 'normal', hence the strange relationships that I have with people, including my friends, but it's my kind of normal.

I think there are many kinds of friends - ones you socialise with, ones that you can have a heart to heart with, or ones that you do everything with. I have a mixture of all, and I love them all!

 

[Cordelia Chase*]

I'd have to totally agree. I've been through so much with my friends. They are my family. But then again, they have caused so much pain to me as well. But I don't know really. Some friends I guess are more jelous or hateful of me?????

 

[Wanabee-slayer]

Well I guess every relationship has ups and downs why should friendship be any different.?

 

[elmo]

Well, for people like myself, who's family is messed up beyond recognition in places, friends are a blessing! I love my friends and they are there to support and criticise me through whatever I do. I wouldn't be where I am now if it weren't for my friends. We don't always get along but we know what's best for each other. They aren't just "yes" men to me... trust me... they are more than that. We have our fallouts and each and every one brings us closer together. We are a family! 🙂

 

[Wanabee-slayer]

See I kinda have the same family life as you Elmo and it's why I rely on my friends alot more then other people normally would.

 

[Cohen]

so...if someone doesnt like you when they dont know you...and they call you out and say things to you that are...bad...and you refrain from "bitching out" at them...are you considered "lame"?

 

[Winifred]

Well...no, why should you be considered lame for refraining from 'bitching out', as you put it? To me it sounds like you're the better person if you don't sink to their level and start some mindless verbal abuse. And if they don't even know you, then pffft to them. They're not worth the time of day I say.

 

[Cohen]

thank you.
My buds are here, I love my buds!

 

[Schillaci]

Well...no, why should you be considered lame for refraining from 'bitching out', as you put it? To me it sounds like you're the better person if you don't sink to their level and start some mindless verbal abuse. And if they don't even know you, then pffft to them. They're not worth the time of day I say.

Hmmm. I would actually call it not standing up for yourself......

 

[BillieHunter]

Hmmm. I would actually call it not standing up for yourself......

Yea well why get into it with someone who isnt even worth it...its such a waste of your own time biching them out....who cares what they think of you anyway...i dont think it was not standing up for yourself...i think its a matter of being the better person...but whatever feel free to disagree with me...

SO sk8rj04...i dont think that would be considered lame at all...

 

[Schillaci]

Yea well why get into it with someone who isnt even worth it...its such a waste of your own time biching them out....who cares what they think of you anyway...

Well, it obviously bothered sk8rj04 to the point where he posted on this site about it.

i dont think it was not standing up for yourself...i think its a matter of being the better person

The better person does not allow someone to pick on them.

...but whatever feel free to disagree with me...

Of course, its my right to have an opinion, as of course it's your right to have an opinion.

SO sk8rj04...i dont think that would be considered lame at all...

I do. I also reckon it's the sort of thing that would play on a persons mind, and would make them become very insecure.

 

[doppelgänger2]

I actualyl have BB to thank for most of my close friends, heh.. Like Carolina/Fran/doppelgänger, she's a pain in the ass, she never agrees with me and she's kinda mean 😀 But I love her and she's one of my best friends, lol....

Aaaw, hunni 😀

See, that's what real friendship is all about. I'm kinda mean (a.k.a sarcastic) and a pain in the ass and disagreeing with Epo is sort of a pastime thing for me, but she loves me anyway. And I love Epo too, even tho she's whiney and impossible to talk to when grumpy and basically a pain in the ass too.

For me; real friendship is all about loving each other no matter what. And that's why I don't have many real friends cause I honestly don't give a damn about most people around me.

 

[eponinethen]

Aaaw, hunni 😀

See, that's what real friendship is all about. I'm kinda mean (a.k.a sarcastic) and a pain in the ass and disagreeing with Epo is sort of a pastime thing for me, but she loves me anyway. And I love Epo too, even tho she's whiney and impossible to talk to when grumpy and basically a pain in the ass too.

For me; real friendship is all about loving each other no matter what. And that's why I don't have many real friends cause I honestly don't give a damn about most people around me.

I couldn't rep you 'cause I do that too much 😉 But I just wanted to say what and awesome duo we are and how much I lööööööv you <3

😀

 

[HellGods]

I too, love my friends. Sure, they piss me off from time to time but when it comes down to it, they're always there for me. When things get rough I always have them to lean on, and if I'm being stupid or getting upset over something insignificant, I expect them to tell me, which they do.

A friend is someone who always says 'yes', and when they do say 'no', you fall out with them.

Maybe that's how your friendships have been, but not mine. We have a level of respect for one another and if there's something one of us doesn't want to do, then were usually fine with it. I've never "fallen out with them".

 

[Cohen]

Well, it obviously bothered sk8rj04 to the point where he posted on this site about it.

Actually, the only reason i posted it on this thread was to bring the person out as it was someone on the boards that said that, so it would be unwise to make comments on things you dont know the whole story of.

The better person does not allow someone to pick on them.

When the person is doing it just to get you to come out and bitch at them, then to get back at them, you dont bitch out. It get's them more ticked off.

I also reckon it's the sort of thing that would play on a persons mind, and would make them become very insecure.

as im not insecure because of that, i would have to disagree with you there/