The whole grudge on Spike....

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Angel and Spike were built for the old compare and contrast!! I don't think you can really talk about one without mentioning the other - ideally this would be done in a non-confrontation, non-biased way . . . but hey, we're fans - we let our feelings show, we all like to think that our interpretation of the series is the correct one.

I sometimes think that it's not so much the other ship that we dislike as much as it the opposition shippers (I don't mean in a personal way - I don't dislike anyone here!) and their stance . . . or maybe it's insecurity about our own ship - that we secretly (not that we'd ever admit it!!) see the other one is a threat to ours and we react by getting strident and argumentative?
 
But what I find the hardest part about this impossible argument is Spuffy fans themselves.

I just wanna point out it's not Spuffy fans that make me dislike Spuffy, it's that Spike turned into a snore fest from about season 5 onwards.

But for this argument, the part I don't like is that Spuffy fans will go on and on about how great Spike was in Season 6, and how he was in love with her and one of the good guys. They'll say how Spikes was an anomaly in Vampire world because he kinda became the souled version of himself without actually having the soul. And then they want to be able to wave off the attempted rape, by whipping out the No soul argument, and I don't think it's fair to say the first part then the second.

And when you argue this point in discussion, it's almost imediatly followed by a, thats fine drop all the stuff from before he got a soul, it's from Season 7 on where Spuffy actually starts - but very few people actually believe that as in other thread they will be using points from season 6, or have banners with season 6 Spuffy moments.

The way I look at Spike is as the whole without deleting parts of his story, he was a vampire who got a muzzle it humanized him, he tried to rape Buffy, he got a soul and the humanized part of him was still there, which is why Buffy can never love Spike, but has feelings for him, and why he says "No you don't"

(My final point on Spuffy fans, is when the argument goes on past the points above, the good old "The attempted rape was so out of character, and clearly just a plot device" - which only shows crazy delusions, becasue 1, totally in character - soulless killing machine, and 2, duh! everything is a plot device, but since he does it, that makes it part of his character)
*Also I don't mean ALL Spuffy fans, this has just been my expieriences with this particular discussion in the past*

Sorry but if you're a Spuffy and you read this post for the first time, it can be offending! I don't think it was just a plot device, but saying a spuffy who does is having "delusions"? I know that BEG knows I'm not like that (or at least I hope he does) but saying things like WA is wearing "spike beer googles" and he is "lying"? WA is not like that. I think we just need to respect each others opinions more 🙂
 
I don't think anyone meant to be hurtful or rude but I'm sorry if you were offended. We're all guilty of making assumptions about people, I guess but it does work both ways. I'm not using that a justification by any means, and I hope that I haven't said anything personally that's upset you because I know how frustrated I get when things are assumed about me because I'm a Bangel supporter.

And I agree that they will always be compared. I think its the nature of argument/debate. I'm very much willing to say that I do probably hold Spike up to Angel's standards and for me he always falls short but I don't think I'm wrong for doing it. I am merely human! 😛 😉

Sorry about that Flannen, I edited it right before you quoted it. No it was not you at all, you're very very respectful. And I agree with you 100%
 
I sometimes think that it's not so much the other ship that we dislike as much as it the opposition shippers (I don't mean in a personal way - I don't dislike anyone here!) and their stance . . .

I agree with that. I don't get the incessant need to prove that one ship is better than the other. When it's done in fun (like the Adopt a Bangel thread, or the current swapping sides thing) it's fine, but when it gets downright nasty (eg. calling people liars, saying someone is ridiculous for liking one ship etc.) I can't understand it.

Bangels are never going to change the Spuffy shippers minds and vice versa, so why is there always so much arguing?

Sorry for going off topic with my soap box, lol.

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Emzzie
AGREED! :D
When it's done in fun (like the Adopt a Bangel thread, or the current swapping sides thing) it's fine,

Bangels are never going to change the Spuffy shippers minds and vice versa, so why is there always so much arguing?

Just to clarify something here, Joan and WO are considered by the Spuffy community to have not so much changed ships as that they are missionaries, bringing the light and joy of Spuffy to the dark, depressed Bangels. Just like any true missionary, they must first live among the Lost, learn their customs, and gain their confidence so that they can begin to lead the lost children into the light.

As for your other statement, you're only halfway right. Certainly, Bangels will never change Spuffies. That goes without saying. But as far as Spuffies changing Bangels, well, that's our holy mission, and we will never abandon our fellow Buffy lovers. Remember, FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS SHIP BANGEL. It's not just a brilliant statement, it's the inescapable truth.
 
Wishing Oceans
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Sorry but if you're a Spuffy and you read this post for the first time, it can be offending! I don't think it was just a plot device, but saying a spuffy who does is having "delusions"? I know that BEG knows I'm not like that (or at least I hope he does) but saying things like WA is wearing "spike beer googles" and he is "lying"? WA is not like that. I think we just need to respect each others opinions more 🙂

Sorry, As I said I wasn't saying all Spuffys, but I do stick to what I said. I think people that take a part of a characters history or a character trait and dismiss it as part of a plot device are delusional, and I really think that is a fair thing to say.

Im gonna explain what I was saying 1 more time, becasue I must have said it wrong, as people keep picking up on certain words I used and throwing what I said out,

Everything that happened was part of a plot device, but we discuss everything else as a pro or con for characters, people have big long discussions about how Spike is this anomaly in the vampire world and he held onto part of his humanity and there wasn't much of a change in him throughout his change from Vampire, Vampire, Chipped Vampire, Souled Vampire.

But when it comes to the attempted rape, it's something that doesn't fit in with their idea of a love connection between Spike and Buffy and they turn to arguments like:

Spike is an anomaly and but the attempted rape wasn't really him it was cuz he had no soul, but we should still take all the good stuff he did and see that as all part of his character, but leave the AR behind.

The second type of argument is: Of it was just a plot device, and so out of character - and this one really pisses me off, becasue for one it wasn't out of character, and secondly its not fair to include an out of show point in the argument when the rest of the things discussed are in show (characters motives etc.)

I've never heard of the answer to any other debate being that it was just a plot device so I don't think it should fly in this one.


I also totally understand respecting other people opinions, but honestly WA did have Spike Beer goggles on during this post:

And then he got his soul back.[SPIKE]

And he was still Spike, the Big Bad, still the bloody awful poet, still the guy who reveled in the fists and fangs combat. Still the bleached hair, still the bravado. But he fights for the good guys, now. Still sarcastic, still a bit arrogant. But he's a Champion now. Still the swaggering scrapper who you immediately know can't be bullied or pushed around. Still the warrior with the soul of a poet and the heart of a lion. Still Spike.

And I wouldn't want him any other way.

I mean as I pointed out, this just isn't true for what we got after Spike got a soul. The Spike we got didn't enjoy the fight, he ran away from them. He spent most of Season 7 running away or being chained up in a basement. A spike who was pushed around by The First and Giles, who no one, with the exception of Buffy, had respect for (maybe Andrew)

All the things WA said are describing a much earlier Spike, the one in Season was was not this person - and if WA did see this is how Spike was in S7, then there were Spike Dr. Pepper goggles being worn.

Now the last time I posted this, I got replies explaining how Spike has a soul so didn't like to fight, or he didn't run away from fight.
I am commenting on WA's post, the replies I got I agree with, I know he didn't relish the kill anymore, thats why I commented on WA's post.
So if someone does want to comment back on this post, please don't explain Spikes actions, explain how WA saw this Spike that just wasn't there in Season 7?
 
Kana
Kana
about the plot device thing.
I don't blame Spike at all. I blame Joss, definitely, for ruining the character, but not Spike.

I hate Bangel. Like, so much, lol. I, however, do not resort to calling them delusional or classifying everyone who ships Bangel into one stereotype. It's stupid and kind of offensive. I mean, really. If you disagree with someone, directly tell them. Beating around the bush by saying "all" or "most" of a certain ship are "this way" or "that" just makes things worse, believe me.

I forgave Spike because Buffy was a moron in that situation, before and after the fact. She made too much of it. She knew Spike wouldn't hurt her, yet she goes and tells everyone about it, which just causes everyone to hate Spike even more.

We don't know if he was trying to rape her. I mean, yeah it was put bluntly, but he just pinned her down, MUCH like she does to him in EVERY episode. Before I go any further with this and become attacked, I need to say something: Buffy, Spike, and Angel are fictional characters. As in, they do not exist. As in, you do not know them. As in, their love triangle should not affect you personally. The people who put more effort into the lives of made-up people than their own life are delirious. People are not delirious because they ship a certain couple.

Back to my main point, which I have argued countless times...

Spike did not remove any types of clothing. He did not try to insert anything anywhere. He didn't. even. do. anything. sexual. (granted, I haven't watched the episode in about a year, so, correct me if I'm wrong.) Rape is, without a politically correct definition, non-consensual sexual activity. This did not happen. Spike simply reversed the situation because that is all he's ever known of Buffy. Buffy, being the whore she was being, used Spike for sex. He was, of course, always horny and willing. When Spike wanted some relief, he turned to Buffy. Yes, he did get caught up in the moment and went way farther than he should have, but he backed off. He stepped away, he left, he was gone. He honestly seemed and looked disgusted with himself for even trying to hurt the woman he loved. Buffy never showed this type of emotion. She faced disgust, but at herself because it was Spike. Spike the nasty vampire, Spike: Angel's Mortal Enemy. Never did Buffy beat herself up because she was afraid she was hurting the vampire; she was just afraid for what her heart and body wanted.

I don't support rape. Rapists deserve to die, and should be removed from the earth. What Spike did, however, was not rape. He became obsessed with a woman whom he loved and was confused and lost and desperate and didn't know what to do. At least he didn't take it far at all, give him that much at least.

If that was harsh, which I'm sure it was, I apologize. I may lose a friend or whatever, but I needed to get this off my chest once and for all. I don't know if I'll be returning to this thread anytime soon.
 
I don't blame Spike at all. I blame Joss, definitely, for ruining the character, but not Spike.

I hate Bangel. Like, so much, lol. I, however, do not resort to calling them delusional or classifying everyone who ships Bangel into one stereotype. It's stupid and kind of offensive. I mean, really. If you disagree with someone, directly tell them. Beating around the bush by saying "all" or "most" of a certain ship are "this way" or "that" just makes things worse, believe me.

Im gonna assume this was aimed at me?
I have done nothing but say I was addressing White Avenger, something people are really having a problem reading.

I also said in my expierience with this topic, which is exactly that it has been my expierience with this topic, so why shouldn't I say that?

I forgave Spike because Buffy was a moron in that situation, before and after the fact. She made too much of it. She knew Spike wouldn't hurt her, yet she goes and tells everyone about it, which just causes everyone to hate Spike even more.

We don't know if he was trying to rape her. I mean, yeah it was put bluntly, but he just pinned her down, MUCH like she does to him in EVERY episode. Before I go any further with this and become attacked, I need to say something: Buffy, Spike, and Angel are fictional characters. As in, they do not exist. As in, you do not know them. As in, their love triangle should not affect you personally. The people who put more effort into the lives of made-up people than their own life are delirious. People are not delirious because they ship a certain couple.

Back to my main point, which I have argued countless times...

Spike did not remove any types of clothing. He did not try to insert anything anywhere. He didn't. even. do. anything. sexual. (granted, I haven't watched the episode in about a year, so, correct me if I'm wrong.) Rape is, without a politically correct definition, non-consensual sexual activity. This did not happen. Spike simply reversed the situation because that is all he's ever known of Buffy. Buffy, being the whore she was being, used Spike for sex. He was, of course, always horny and willing. When Spike wanted some relief, he turned to Buffy. Yes, he did get caught up in the moment and went way farther than he should have, but he backed off. He stepped away, he left, he was gone. He honestly seemed and looked disgusted with himself for even trying to hurt the woman he loved. Buffy never showed this type of emotion. She faced disgust, but at herself because it was Spike. Spike the nasty vampire, Spike: Angel's Mortal Enemy. Never did Buffy beat herself up because she was afraid she was hurting the vampire; she was just afraid for what her heart and body wanted.

If that was harsh, which I'm sure it was, I apologize. I may lose a friend or whatever, but I needed to get this off my chest once and for all. I don't know if I'll be returning to this thread anytime soon.

I think everyone know these people aren't real, part of what I like about the show is the whole metaphor thing, and how it does connect to real life, so people can get as invested in the story as much as they want.

As for your not thinkingly of it as rape, that I'm have to ask, have you watched the right show?

Spike attempted to rape her, it was nothing like the other times they had sex. Buffy was screaming no, while either on the verge of tears or actually crying.

You are wrong when you say he didn't try and force himself, he smacked her head down off the bath tub, she kicked him off she tried to escape and he drags her back, where his rips open her bathrobe, while he has her pinned down.

And Spike absolutely does not get up and walk away, buffy shoves him halfway across the room, so he is forcefully smacked into the wall.

He couldn't rape her, it's not that he didn't, she defended herself against him.
 
He couldn't rape her, it's not that he didn't, she defended herself against him.

He could rape her if he wanted to. Spike against Buffy, Spike would clearly win. He also had ample opportunity to do so after the first "attempt", and decided not to because he loved her. As clearly shown before, Spike doesn't learn right from wrong very clearly.

And for Buffy to treat it as a rape attempt when there are thousands of real rape victims is in bad taste, just like members here treating it in such a way.

And no, nothing was aimed at you.
 
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Kelsey
Whoa. I'm a Spike fan to the core, but I can't even agree with this.
Kean
Kean
I have never used the disagree function but this way out of line.
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TheVoid68
It clearly was an attempted rape, it's ridiculous to say otherwise. Plus, Spike would not "clearly win", Buffy could beat him in a second.
He could rape her if he wanted to. Spike against Buffy, Spike would clearly win. He also had ample opportunity to do so after the first "attempt", and decided not to because he loved her. As clearly shown before, Spike doesn't learn right from wrong very clearly.

And for Buffy to treat it as a rape attempt when there are thousands of real rape victims is in bad taste, just like members here treating it in such a way.

And no, nothing was aimed at you.

Buffy v Spike has Buffy coming out on top, there's no way he could take any of the fights they had in the past she beat him.

Spike didn't decided not to rape her, she had kicked him into a wall.

Rape is when someone forces sexual intercourse on another person, attempted rape is when someone attempts to do this, how could it not be more clear thats what he was attempting

He says:

SPIKE: I know you felt it ... when I was inside you...
BUFFY: No, ow, ow! (sobbing) Please, please, Spike, please...
SPIKE: You'll feel it again, Buffy...
BUFFY: Please don't do this...
SPIKE: I'm gonna make you feel it

It's so clear what his intentions where.

He's an attempted rapist.
 
Please give me one instance where he blames Angelus rather than shouldering the blame himself. The issue isn't how the fans supposedly present the issue, it's how the show handled it. And I think that Spike was given an excuse in the form of a soul that didn't

I can't think of a way to word this better than I already have. It's not just one instance in which Angel said, "Angelus did this. Not me." It's the way the character is built and treated as a whole. It's the way ensoulled Angel is one person, while Angelus is someone completely different. It's the way the show built up the soul to mean that having one can make you someone entirely new. It's the fact that he broods and searches for redemption, but even while he does he's not Angelus--he's Angel. They even have different names, for Goodness' sake!

Also, part of what I factor into my argument is the way the fandom treats the characters, because that's what I see most often. I don't watch an episode of Buffy a day, but I DO come here nearly every day. And I see the exact opposite of what you see--I see Spike constantly being condemned, while Angel's always got his alter-ego to blame. It's because there isn't as firm a line with Spike as there is with Angel that Spike most often receives blame and disapproval.

In any case, Becky is right that we shouldn't compare the two. Sorry if I started that train myself--I honestly didn't try to. I like Angel--I really do! But where Angel is the wounded, burdened and brave hero, I find Spike to be his messed-up, less powerful, slightly stupider yet fiercely loyal and entirely lovable foil.



But I used to love Spike. He was one of my favourite characters. This "bias" only came from him starting to become a loathsome character in my eyes through some of his actions and other characters' responses. If anything I was sugarcoating his character for a while because I liked him so much, until eventually I gave up and said "screw this, he's really start to piss me off". That was in S6. Then at the start of S7 I said to myself "self, forget about S6, he didn't have a soul then, let him start anew and judge him on that". He managed to break my optimism then too.

I think we should all stop talking about "bias" against or for a certain character. It's not really what bias means. For example, if you are a Bangel shipper you may be biased towards disliking Spuffy. But it doesn't make you biased towards liking Bangel. You like Bangel because you like Bangel. I dislike late-season Spike because I don't like late-season Spike. There's no bias involved, I'm simply judging his actions.

I meant it in the way that, because you dislike him, you see everything he does through that dislike and it colors his actions. I've seen this a lot--for one example, suddenly everything Spike did for Buffy is self-centered and selfishly motivated, though I can't imagine how staying and protecting her sister after Buffy's dead is selfishly motivated. But perhaps I meant that particular argument more to those opinions than yours.

And he clearly felt really bad for Wood too. :rolleyes2 Expressing one line of guilt isn't enough - he never even said sorry to anyone but Buffy.

Out of curiosity, (and I really mean this honestly, not sarcastically) who did you want him to apologize to? His victims are all dead and gone, and I'm not sure that he needed to directly apologize to the Scoobies. For hurting Buffy, perhaps, but he said that to her. For trying to kill them, maybe, but he had been living for years with them past that, and obviously he didn't succeed. Besides that, the Scoobies had their own things they should have apologized for, yet they never did.

There wasn't time? Then they should've made time! It's not like it would've taken up a lot - in three seasons of Buffy, Angel's angst was only "delved into" in one episode, Amends. The rest was worked into his general character and dialogue.

Right, but Angel also had his own show after that, in which we were constantly told of the guilt he felt. In addition, he was introduced as that burdened, guilt-ridden character, right from the very beginning. Making Spike so now would have meant a rebuilding of his character. They did work it into general dialogue and into his actions, such as wanting Buffy to kill him when the First was controlling him. He said more than once that he felt guilty for what he'd done, and I do attribute part of his insanity to that guilt. I know not everyone agrees, but that's my view of it. I saw him as a chastened, changed version of himself in S7.

Also, I'm not asking for a broody Spike. There's not much I want less than a broody Spike. I just want a Spike that isn't given the get-out clause of a soul as much as he was in S7.

You know, when I really think about it, it's not Spike who really annoys me the most in S7. It's how other people react to him - and when I say other people I mean Buffy. She constantly gives him the get-out soul clause, chooses him over her friends, refuses to see the bigger picture, letting him free out of his chains when he is still a danger to everyone around him. Not to mention that he got far too much screentime for my liking, while three of the original core four were often pushed to the side. Of course, Spike himself annoyed me too, but that helped.

See, I felt they gave us a Spike that accepted responsibility and knew the wrongness of his past actions. That's really what I saw. Anymore than that, and I feel we would have gotten Angel 2.0. I saw a Spike who was well aware of his past actions ("As wicked and evil as I was, I never hated myself. Not like I do now", "It haunts me, all of it", etc), and a Spike who no longer expected Buffy to reciprocate his love. No cozy crypt with a view, remember? No, he didn't immediately throw himself onto a path of redemption like Angel, but he helped Buffy in her war and ultimately sacrificed himself. Just because you said the cut-off date was Chosen does not mean I don't factor that in hugely. It's kind of a big deal! =P




I was talking specifically about what he has done during S7, not just before and not right at the end and not on AtS. Even more specifically, what he has done between the start of S7 and that scene in "Never Leave Me".

Well, fighting for Buffy, allowing her to use him as the vampire example to train the Potentials, being there for her in general and offering his support are all good things. Again, not huge gestures of his desire for redemption, but enough for me. He was also dealing with being a puppet to the first and then being kidnapped by her/him/it.

Again, I don't really see why you've cut it off before Chosen. Spike's actions in AtS have a lot of weight too, because they show his shift from being a pretty good guy to actually wanting to be a hero. Plus he did all of it separately from Buffy, which is an even bigger acheivement for him. Snaps for Spike.

OK, so Wood attacked him. Spike defends himself? Perfectly acceptable. Spike almost kills him? Wrong, but understandable. Not apologising for killing his mother? Reflects badly on him. Taunting him, telling him that his dead mother never loved him? Horrible, bordering on evil.

Interesting perspective--hadn't quite thought of it that way before. And yeah, if you're looking for an example where Spike isn't as sorry as he should be, you've found it there. However, I don't think it negates everything else I've already listed.

Well in the end, all it comes down to is our own opinions and interpretations. We're just throwing them at each other. 🙂

Very true! Please excuse any throwing. I generally try not to ram my opinion down people's throats, but sometimes I get worked up!

So he didn't feel vaguely sorry for Robin's mother because he's putting on a facade and was reluctant to let the sensitive side of him show? So he told him those horrible things to protect his poetic soul from showing? I fail to see how that's any better.

I was not excusing that moment in particular, and again, he probably should have been sorrier than he was about Robin. The veneer comment referred to the season as a whole, and a possible explanation as to why he didn't constantly wear his guilt on his sleeve. He even said, in response to Wood knowing of his soul, that it was a "very private" matter.

I never said that. I want Spike to do his own thing. I just don't want him to act like an a-hole to anyone who isn't Buffy, and I don't want Buffy to continually make excuses for him and side with him.

For the record, I don't like Buffy in S6 or 7 either. 😉

I think he was better in general in S7. He didn't want to hurt anyone, and he was certainly better to the Scoobies, though at this point none of them really liked him (for admittedly good reasons). He was an a-hole to Wood, but Wood was equally an a-hole to him. In luring Spike, cornering him and using The First's trigger to make Spike lose control, I don't think Wood deserves as much benefit as you're giving him. But that is, after all, just my opinion.
 
I also totally understand respecting other people opinions, but honestly WA did have Spike Beer goggles on during this post:




All the things WA said are describing a much earlier Spike, the one in Season was was not this person - and if WA did see this is how Spike was in S7, then there were Spike Dr. Pepper goggles being worn.

Now the last time I posted this, I got replies explaining how Spike has a soul so didn't like to fight, or he didn't run away from fight.
I am commenting on WA's post, the replies I got I agree with, I know he didn't relish the kill anymore, thats why I commented on WA's post.
So if someone does want to comment back on this post, please don't explain Spikes actions, explain how WA saw this Spike that just wasn't there in Season 7?

Okay, folks, first of all, I'm sorry that all of this has gone as far as it has while I was somewhere else. Secondly, I would like to thank my friends here for standing up for me in my absence. That means more than you will ever know.

And to BEG, my most sincere apologies if you have been offended by any of the comments made either by me or any of my friends here. The truth of the matter is that I do sometimes let my rhetoric overstep the bounds of perceived reality, and, though I do honestly try to stop at stretching reality ALMOST to the breaking point, sometimes it snaps without my even realizing it.

The fact is, I still see Spike exactly as I described him earlier, but in order to do so, I obviously edited reality to fit my viewpoint, something that I wasn't even aware of doing at the time. All of the above can be summed up quite easily by simply saying, you were right, and I was wrong. And, believe me, the older I get, the harder it gets to recognize that fact, let alone admit it.

Once again, to all concerned, my most sincere apologies for stirring up a minor crap storm and then leaving it here for someone else to clean up. I hope that no one on either side of this discussion was either offended or angered, but if you were, then I accept the blame for it.

And now, having said all of that, I will humbly slink away into a corner somewhere and try to clean off my Dr Pepper glasses so that I I can see a little better from now on. No guarantees, though.
 
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Kelsey
Aww, I liked your rhetoric. It was pretty. =)
.... Anyone down for a cyber-group hug? Anyone? Just me?

Me, me, me! I need one, seriously. It's been a...bad day.
*hugs everyone*

I love you all. Seriously. I respect you all so much. Let's not be angry. Let's bond in our mutual love of this amazing show, and let's remember that our strong reactions are only because we love these characters so much. But at the end of the day, I think can all agree that rape is WRONG. Nobody is contesting that.

And for Buffy to treat it as a rape attempt when there are thousands of real rape victims is in bad taste, just like members here treating it in such a way.
What do you mean by this? Do you mean that it was in bad taste for Buffy to treat it as a AR? I'm not sure I understand...could you elaborate?

Okay, folks, first of all, I'm sorry that all of this has gone as far as it has while I was somewhere else. Secondly, I would like to thank my friends here for standing up for me in my absence. That means more than you will ever know.
I will always fiercely defend you, friend. You were not lying in your post. It was your opinion, as is mine as well, and totally valid.
 
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Kelsey
*Hugs back!*
white avenger
white avenger
Thank you, sweet lady. You're the best,,,
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Emzzie
*HUGS*
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Willow-Tree
I mainly meant fans of Buffy (the show) saying it was like the worst thing ever, when so much worse could have been done.
I can't think of a way to word this better than I already have. It's not just one instance in which Angel said, "Angelus did this. Not me." It's the way the character is built and treated as a whole. It's the way ensoulled Angel is one person, while Angelus is someone completely different. It's the way the show built up the soul to mean that having one can make you someone entirely new. It's the fact that he broods and searches for redemption, but even while he does he's not Angelus--he's Angel. They even have different names, for Goodness' sake!

Also, part of what I factor into my argument is the way the fandom treats the characters, because that's what I see most often. I don't watch an episode of Buffy a day, but I DO come here nearly every day. And I see the exact opposite of what you see--I see Spike constantly being condemned, while Angel's always got his alter-ego to blame. It's because there isn't as firm a line with Spike as there is with Angel that Spike most often receives blame and disapproval.

Well, I was talking about how the show portrays it rather than how the fans do.

I meant it in the way that, because you dislike him, you see everything he does through that dislike and it colors his actions. I've seen this a lot--for one example, suddenly everything Spike did for Buffy is self-centered and selfishly motivated, though I can't imagine how staying and protecting her sister after Buffy's dead is selfishly motivated. But perhaps I meant that particular argument more to those opinions than yours.

Yeah, I never accused his actions of being selfishly motivated. Maybe you're right, at the point I made my post I'd just watched Lies My Parents Told Me and was very angry about his behaviour in that episode, so I went off on a rant about Spike in general. I'm feeling a lot less anti-Spike now, and I can see your point.

Out of curiosity, (and I really mean this honestly, not sarcastically) who did you want him to apologize to? His victims are all dead and gone, and I'm not sure that he needed to directly apologize to the Scoobies. For hurting Buffy, perhaps, but he said that to her. For trying to kill them, maybe, but he had been living for years with them past that, and obviously he didn't succeed. Besides that, the Scoobies had their own things they should have apologized for, yet they never did.

Mainly, I wanted him to apologise to Wood. Him refusing to do so really reflected badly on him in ym view. Apologising to the Scoobies would've been nice as well. Only apologising to Buffy made him look like he only cared about her and nobody else, which is a trait I don't like in people.

Right, but Angel also had his own show after that, in which we were constantly told of the guilt he felt. In addition, he was introduced as that burdened, guilt-ridden character, right from the very beginning. Making Spike so now would have meant a rebuilding of his character. They did work it into general dialogue and into his actions, such as wanting Buffy to kill him when the First was controlling him. He said more than once that he felt guilty for what he'd done, and I do attribute part of his insanity to that guilt. I know not everyone agrees, but that's my view of it. I saw him as a chastened, changed version of himself in S7.

See, I felt they gave us a Spike that accepted responsibility and knew the wrongness of his past actions. That's really what I saw. Anymore than that, and I feel we would have gotten Angel 2.0. I saw a Spike who was well aware of his past actions ("As wicked and evil as I was, I never hated myself. Not like I do now", "It haunts me, all of it", etc), and a Spike who no longer expected Buffy to reciprocate his love. No cozy crypt with a view, remember? No, he didn't immediately throw himself onto a path of redemption like Angel, but he helped Buffy in her war and ultimately sacrificed himself. Just because you said the cut-off date was Chosen does not mean I don't factor that in hugely. It's kind of a big deal! =P

Well, fighting for Buffy, allowing her to use him as the vampire example to train the Potentials, being there for her in general and offering his support are all good things. Again, not huge gestures of his desire for redemption, but enough for me. He was also dealing with being a puppet to the first and then being kidnapped by her/him/it.

Again, I'm not feeling massively anti-Spike right now and so I can see your points more clearly. I don't agree with them of course, but as they're mainly down to individual interpretations I cannot really say they're wrong. If I ever rewatch Seeing Red or Lies, gimmee a call and I'll rant against those points. 🙂

Again, I don't really see why you've cut it off before Chosen. Spike's actions in AtS have a lot of weight too, because they show his shift from being a pretty good guy to actually wanting to be a hero. Plus he did all of it separately from Buffy, which is an even bigger acheivement for him. Snaps for Spike.

I cut it off because it was specifically Buffy's comments in "Never Leave Me" that bugged me. It doesn't matter what happened beforehand, Buffy congratulated him on his "penance" before he'd actually done any. From getting his soul until that point, he'd babbled in a basement for a while and then killed a few people while brainwashed. Nothing penance-y whatsoever. I felt that the show was giving Spike credit where, at that point, credit really wasn't due.

I think I should say that I am currently watching S7 for the very first time (just two episodes to go!), and so my opinion on Spike and all the other characters will fluctuate depending on which episode I watched last. I quite liked Spike in "Empty Places", and "Touched" contained a Spuffy moment that didn't make me want to vomit, quite an improvement. Hence the lesser Spike hate.

Interesting perspective--hadn't quite thought of it that way before. And yeah, if you're looking for an example where Spike isn't as sorry as he should be, you've found it there. However, I don't think it negates everything else I've already listed.

It doesn't negate it, no. And it is not negated by anything else. Spike acted like an utter jerk who seemed to want Wood to suffer horribly in that scene, and yet the show and Buffy acted like he was in the right.

Very true! Please excuse any throwing. I generally try not to ram my opinion down people's throats, but sometimes I get worked up!

I get plenty worked up myself. 🙂

I was not excusing that moment in particular, and again, he probably should have been sorrier than he was about Robin. The veneer comment referred to the season as a whole, and a possible explanation as to why he didn't constantly wear his guilt on his sleeve. He even said, in response to Wood knowing of his soul, that it was a "very private" matter.

Yes, I thought it was fine and in-character that he wasn't open about his angst. But I thought that if he was ever going to show it, he should've done it then. His comments to Robin, as I said before, made him look like a jerk in my eyes. And I don't mind characters acting like jerks, but when they're never called out on it, that bugged me.

I think he was better in general in S7. He didn't want to hurt anyone, and he was certainly better to the Scoobies, though at this point none of them really liked him (for admittedly good reasons). He was an a-hole to Wood, but Wood was equally an a-hole to him. In luring Spike, cornering him and using The First's trigger to make Spike lose control, I don't think Wood deserves as much benefit as you're giving him. But that is, after all, just my opinion.

Spike killed Wood's mother. Maybe trying to kill Spike wasn't Wood's best decision, but I can completely sympathise with him and understand his actions. Spike was fine for me for large parts of the season, but the way he was presented in a few episodes, mainly Never Leave Me and LMPTM, really bugged me and reflected badly on his character as a whole.
 
Just to clear things up, like I stated before, rape is horrible, and my heart strongly goes out to any victims of attempted/rape.

What Spike did, although attempted, was not rape. I get really annoyed when people act like what Spike did was the worst possible thing imaginable, when SO much more could have happened. I understand Buffy was definitely traumatized for a while, and she rightfully should have been. But for fans to classify it in the same vein as what actual people have been through just sickens me.

Like, I don't know how to explain this without getting smashed again, but, yeah.

Buffy trusted, even loved him, only like months after it happened. Do rape victims really go back to their attacker and LOVE them? No. Same with the Scoobies. They trusted him with her, no matter how wary they were; same with Dawn.
 
Just to clear things up, like I stated before, rape is horrible, and my heart strongly goes out to any victims of attempted/rape.

What Spike did, although attempted, was not rape. I get really annoyed when people act like what Spike did was the worst possible thing imaginable, when SO much more could have happened. I understand Buffy was definitely traumatized for a while, and she rightfully should have been. But for fans to classify it in the same vein as what actual people have been through just sickens me.

Like, I don't know how to explain this without getting smashed again, but, yeah.

Buffy trusted, even loved him, only like months after it happened. Do rape victims really go back to their attacker and LOVE them? No. Same with the Scoobies. They trusted him with her, no matter how wary they were; same with Dawn.

But what was it if it wasn't attempted rape, no one is saying it was Rape, but it was attempted rape, it wasn't like something we've seen on the show. There is no doubt on my mind that it was attempted rape.

As for your second part, thats part of the reason I see that Buffy wasn't in love with Spike in Season 7, and why they could and never were together as a couple, they could be close but they could never get to that point, and Spike realized that in his "dying" moments at the end of Season 7, hence the 'No you don't'
 
Actually, it's said that the Darla/Angel love scene in Reprise is the closest thing to rape that you've ever seen a "good" character commit on the show... And Angel was completely with soul. 😀
 
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Although it was initiated in a rough manner, it was consensual
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it was rough yes, but definitely not a rape...I didn't see Darla complain in any way...she was just surprised that Angel with a soul could actually behave violently...they both wanted it and she definitely didn't scream for help...
Actually, it's said that the Darla/Angel love scene in Reprise is the closest thing to rape that you've ever seen a "good" character commit on the show... And Angel was completely with soul. 😀

Sure, I haven't seen that episode in ages so I don't wanna agree or disagree, but I did say the closest we've seen on the show, Angel is a separate show.

Also again EPIC FAIL on the being a Bangel, you can probably stop now 😉
 
Actually, it's said that the Darla/Angel love scene in Reprise is the closest thing to rape that you've ever seen a "good" character commit on the show... And Angel was completely with soul. 😀

I'll have to rewatch the scene but from what I remember it Angel was absolutely agressive and using her BUT it was Darla that was pulling of his pants and underwear in the scene not him. And as I recall they had sex three times that night. Hardly constitutes as rape.

Making someone else bad doesn't take the heat off Spike. Especiallly when it is a big stretch of the truth.
 
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