Update (How Do I Deal With This 2)

[killerdwarf]

killerdwarf - you think im violent 🙁!!! LoL. No, I understand what you mean. Well, the top half of your post I understand. What do you mean by "and 99% of us dont deserve it"? What's that in reference too? The bad rap?

Yeah, in my experience (and remember, I work in a place that is well over 75% male populated) most of these guys would rather lose a limb than perpetrate any kind of violence on a lady (woman, I'm never sure what the correct term is, and female sounds a bit condescending) or kids of either gender. That being said, there are a small few that beat their partners ...and they are ostracized for it, and they do deserve what they get, either legal charges or severe shunning by their peers. So to make a long story even longer, some segments of society treat every male as a potential violent stalker, out to bully some woman into a "relationship"...and that just isn't true.

 

[Hero]

It's been almost a week and she's doing a very good job at handling the situation. She hit him again the other day. He doesn't seem to understand the word no. He says he only thinks straight when he cuts himself. That's kinda psychotic. She was fighting with him and pushing him away, but she was smiling, so I didn't say anything. Then it turns out he was tickling her, she was serious, but she was laughing cuz she's ticklish. So I need to know these things lol. Now something really bad happened, according to her friends, so now I have to go over to her house and see what's wrong. I'm all feverish and sick, this better be something I can go take action with...