Was Buffy in love with Spike?

Was Buffy in love with Spike?

  • No

    Votes: 11 42.3%

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 42.3%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Dunno

    Votes: 1 3.8%
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Im a B/Aer but I actually think that in a way Buffy did love Spike. Spike really really loves Buffy. But I think Buffy loves Angel more...JM has said that the reason that Spike hates Angel so much is that Spike knows that Buffy really loves Angel...and not him.
 
I'd say mostly, Spike was right, she was addicted to the misery.
I dont think Buffy loved him...
 
Originally posted by ~*Angel's_Girl*~
Im a B/Aer but I actually think that in a way Buffy did love Spike. Spike really really loves Buffy. But I think Buffy loves Angel more...JM has said that the reason that Spike hates Angel so much is that Spike knows that Buffy really loves Angel...and not him.
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think the same...b/a4eva!!!


angel's girl:Buffy: Like say, immortality?
Angel: Exactly, I'm dying to get rid of that.
Buffy: Funny.
Angel: I'm a funny guy.
whta ep?
 
What did you guys think Joss was trying to tell the viewers when he wrote "Chosen"? I mean, first he had Buffy say that when she becomes cookies, she might get back together with Angel. She didn't say she loved Spike, just that he was "in her heart." Near the end, of course, Buffy told Spike that she loves him, but Joss has Spike say that she really doesn't. Where is Joss going with this?
 
i think he wants us with a lot of doubts.if we don't know what's gonna happen we're gonna watch the show
cookie:ready to be with angel/someone
buffy told spike:well,he was gonna die and she wanted to make him feel good in his last minutes of life,it was lie,i mean seh probably loved him but the way she made it sounds was like 'i'm in love qith you' and that isn't true
 
I wish that Joss Whedon would make a comment about who Buffy loves so that the B/S shippers and the B/A shippers won't have to argue back and forth so much.

Maybe Buffy does love both of them, but who does she love more?
 
Yea, I think she does love them both Slayerangel.....



I wonder who she'll end up w/. in Angel season 5.......probably no-one....I'm sensing a pattern in Buffy's boyfriends, and I hate to quote what Buffy said to Riley ( OMG, I HATE HIM), but I think she may have been right when she said "It's just doomed"
 
ok here's my opinion:

Buffy and Angel-soulmates-true love
Buffy and Spike-loving friendship

I never understood the whole 'cookies' analogy until someone told me that it meant that someday, when she is ready, she would like a relationship with Angel. she's said countless times how much Angel means to her (esp in 'selfless')

As for Spike, i think they got really close but were just good friends, nothing more. Maybe Buffy was close to loving him as a friend as she let him comfort her in 'touched'. When he was about to die, perhaps she said the 'i love you' as more of a "thanks for everything and you're great"

bu then again i could always be wrong...
 
I totally love spuffy but i didnt believe that Buffy loved Spike untill season 7. I thought that when buffy said i love you at the end and then Spike says no you dont but thanks for sayin it.

Buffy: I love you.
Spike: No, you don't. But thanks for saying it. Now go! I wanna see how it ends.

dont ya just love that 🙂
 
In one way yes, as a friend, just like she loves Xander and Willow, but never as a boyfriend!
 
Originally posted by Xander_Lover
ok here's my opinion:

Buffy and Angel-soulmates-true love
Buffy and Spike-loving friendship

I never understood the whole 'cookies' analogy until someone told me that it meant that someday, when she is ready, she would like a relationship with Angel. she's said countless times how much Angel means to her (esp in 'selfless')

As for Spike, i think they got really close but were just good friends, nothing more. Maybe Buffy was close to loving him as a friend as she let him comfort her in 'touched'. When he was about to die, perhaps she said the 'i love you' as more of a "thanks for everything and you're great"

bu then again i could always be wrong...
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I completely agree with Xander_Lover.

Spuffy wasn't meant to be. I still think that Buffy really cares for Spike and all he's done for her, but I think the one she loves most (and has always loved most) is Angel.
 
This is what Joss says about the Spuffy relation ship, the big honcho of the show...

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Okay, so Joss was asked by a woman in the audience, how the audience was supposed to accept Spike or a Spike/Buffy relationship after the attempted rape in season 6. Joss said, after that scene, the writing staff felt very ambivalent about that relationship and they discussed its ramifications a LOT and that very ambivalence is what they wanted the audience to feel. Joss said they wanted to look at whether the action of rape made Spike automatically 'inhuman' or whether there was a chance that he could genuinely feel contrition for his actions, understand that they were wrong and truly repent those actions and spend the rest of his time dealing with the consequences of it and changing his behavior, evolving into a better person. Joss said that after the rape the writers absolutely did not want to suggest that a future romantic relationship between Buffy and Spike was possible or acceptable. Joss specifically cited that he found the "Luke & Laura" saga disgusting (on General Hospital, Luke originally raped Laura, then married her in what is considered one of the biggest soap opera romance ever) and that's NOT what the Buffy/Spike relationship was going to be. What the writers DID want to explore was the issue of trust. Could Spike's behavior prove that he's worthy of Buffy's trust again -- not her romantic love -- but could they get to a place of intimacy of trust.
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I can't decide. Right away I would say SPUFFY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But when I think about it, Bangel was really great. I probably would say Spuffy, but Bangel is good too...but it's over now.
 
Well you could always vote, no comment and their is such a thing where people do tend to like both Spuffy and Bangel so its common.
 
There is not argueing Buffy did love Spike, but there are plenty of different types of love. I believe she did love him, but more of a she really cared about him type of love. she loved Angel in like a In Love with way, but with Spike it was like a friendshipish love...I don't think I explained it very well, but I hope you get the point
 
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