I'be been in the situation of your friend and it took one person who i hardly even knew, who i quickly became friends with when we started college to tell me she was proud of me and to tell me things i've always wanted people to say to me that no one ever has, she also listened to my problems where i mostly listened to all my friends problems and they didnt really take mine into consideration- the way i see it you need someone else to help her, she needs to feel good about herself, try to avoid romantic films and depressing songs e.g. hallelujah from the oc/ shrek etc, hope i helped
