What is your religion?

I was brought up in a Baptist family, who were all deeply religious and forced me to go to church. I was a Bible thumper up til I turned 17 and then I started to question things a little more. These days, I believe in God and pray and I think it's important to be spiritual and have faith, but I don't go to a church. I'm spiritual, not religious.
 
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Tasha
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What religion are you?

What's your religion?

I was baptised as Episcopalian- Protestant and my sister was baptised and confirmed as an Episcopalian-Protestant too! But me an my sis are my dad's religion because he's Protestant and has been Protestant since the day he was born, baptised, and confirmed (which was very long ago lol). But my mom's Catholic and she went to Catholic schools, but she's not really religious because she doesn't go to church. So I'm an Episcopalian-Protestant.:smile3:
 
I don't have any religion, or religious beliefs. My father is nominally United Church of Canada, my mother nominally Baptist. My wife is nominally Muslim. I'm... just me.
 
Raised Christian, stayed Christian. 🙂 Doesn't seem to be a hugely popular category here, but I'm used to being in the minority in that regard.
 
Atheist. Well, depends on what sort of god is being discussed, but I've yet to find one with compelling evidence for its existence that I would think of as a god at all (an actual divine entity, as opposed to, say, an autotheist calling themselves god or a scientific pantheist calling the universe god).
 
I can't help but believe in a God -- or evil spirits. ...'cause I've experienced both in big ways! Don't know how else to explain things I've seen/felt/etc.

To paraphrase Michael Jackson: Half the time, I'm like 'Where is He?' and then, all of a sudden, 'Whoa, there He is!'
 
I'm not willing to completely discount the existence of God or a god or some sort of higher power, I'm playing the waiting game on that one. I do however have a major problem with religion. Religion, to me, seems to take a perfectly acceptable value system & corrupt it to create a power structure. Religion is about control & it seems to me to be fairly fascist in it's ideology, that's very rarely a good thing folks.
 
Taake
Taake
love you ;P well I agree at least
I'm Methodist if I have to say so, but I don't attend church. I do believe in God and a higher power, and I have leaned on the ideas of "happens for a reason" and "better place" when the going gets tough. However, I've been considering religion very much lately, and I don't really like what I see. For as many good, honest people as religion creates, I feel it creates just as many intolerant hypocrites. Religion by its very nature is intolerant. "We are the chosen people" or "Believe in God and repent and get to Heaven"--the subtext being "You are not the chosen people" and "if you don't believe in God and repent, you will not get to Heaven." I don't know how to support something that seems to preach love and peace but in reality creates such unforgiving, judgmental attitudes.

One of my best friends, who is a lovely person, recently told me that if she had a son who was gay, she would send him to "a psychiatrist to fix him." When I told her that was terrible and that she would be introducing her child to a lifetime of disappointment because he could never live up to his mother's expectations, she replied, "But it's a sin!"

Another example is another one of my friends' parents, who are completely controlling of their children. If their children do not live in the way they expect them to live, they are punished, either by grounding if they're young enough or by the silent treatment. My friend hasn't told her mother any of the things she's done in her life because she's afraid of judgment. As a result, her mother doesn't know her own daughter. From someone with an extremely close relationship to my mother, this makes me so incredibly sad.

So yes, I'm rather conflicted about religion, if you couldn't tell. It seems to create the very hatred and cruelty it tries to preach against.
 
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pieceofgosa
The dichotomy between what religion espouses & what it actually results in never fails to astound & horrify me. Well said Kelsey, good post.
Wishing Oceans
Wishing Oceans
Well said, hon. :)
Mahatma Gandhi said, 'I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.' I used to be very hesitant to call myself a Christian because I didn't want to be what most people thought of when they thought of Christians (read the previous posts to see what I mean). Some Christians can be some of the most closed minded people, all high and mighty with the holier-than-thou spirit of religion. It's no wonder so many people are turned off by it, especially those of us forced to go to church growing up. Simplistically said: People suck. Christians, atheists, muslims, buddhists, etc etc etc, PEOPLE suck sometimes. That's why racism and stereotypes are so huge. On a very basic level, if a purple man beamed down and killed my husband, I'd be very weary of the purple people I'd see from that point on, and I definitely wouldn't want to be associated with purple people. Now, I know that just because that one purple person screwed up, that doesn't mean all purple people are screw up murderers, but what if more and more often I saw murders committed by purple people and what if they claimed to be doing it under command of the mothership? Needless to say, according to the Bible (whether one believes it to be fact or fiction), Jesus was not a closed minded person, but a person who would (and did) reach out and befriend hookers, drunkards, thieves, murderers, and even straight up 'demon possessed' folks. Christians who are passing judgement on others for being gay or in any other 'sinful lifestyle' are wrong. They're not following the example of the Christ they claim to be, and there's not justification for it, except, that Christians, that people, sometimes suck.
There is a singer, Regina Spektor, who has a song called Loveology, and in a sense, you could say that is my religion... not that I worship love, but that maybe the Beatles had it right: All ya need is love.
Then again, the Bible teaches that God is love.
'Love God, Love people. The two should never conflict.'
 
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Kelsey
"So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love." =)
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purpledreams
You're so right!! I'm a Christian, and I hate the way that some Christians act, being so judgmental and turning people off. I agree, the most important thing is love, and striving to live by Christ's example.
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InsaneMystic
excellent post.
I'm Jewish by culture and agnostic by belief. I sometimes wish I were spiritual (not religious, though...I hate most organized religions) or atheistic just so I believed in SOMETHING, but I guess you can't really control what you believe, contrary to what most religious nuts seem to think.
 
Tueuse de Vampires
Tueuse de Vampires
I pretty much have the same crisis
When asked I'll often claim to be a Pastafarian 😀 Wikimedia Error

But really I'm just extremely atheist
 
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Kelsey
Ahahahahaha! A friend and I found that not too long ago. We thought it was hilarious, and she now claims to be a Pastafarian.
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MistressPointy
Mmm, I love pasta! FSMftw!
Wishing Oceans
Wishing Oceans
lol, SO agreed. xD
MandaMeena
MandaMeena
Has the flying spaghetti monster touched you with his noodly goodness? Ahahaha!
Another example is another one of my friends' parents, who are completely controlling of their children. If their children do not live in the way they expect them to live, they are punished, either by grounding if they're young enough or by the silent treatment. My friend hasn't told her mother any of the things she's done in her life because she's afraid of judgment. As a result, her mother doesn't know her own daughter. From someone with an extremely close relationship to my mother, this makes me so incredibly sad.

I wouldn't blame that on religion.
I have that very same relationship to my parents, they judge me for everything I do and that's why I don't tell them anything about my life. Only, neither of my parents is even remotely religious.
If you ask me, people as a species are just pretty untolerant and frown on everything different from them, and this might show in religion, but also in many other things.

I'm pretty much in the same situation as Crazy Flake. I have nothing to really put my faith in, neither a religion nor the complete absence of God (aka atheism). And I can't just believe in a religion, or I'll feel like I'm living a lie or I'm deluding myself.
 
I wouldn't blame that on religion.
I have that very same relationship to my parents, they judge me for everything I do and that's why I don't tell them anything about my life. Only, neither of my parents is even remotely religious.
If you ask me, people as a species are just pretty untolerant and frown on everything different from them, and this might show in religion, but also in many other things.

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Her father's a pastor, so a lot of it does stem from his very strong beliefs. His wife was also raised in an extremely Christian household. I probably should have mentioned that, lol. I think people are pretty intolerant (we always notice things that are different), but I think we can either be taught to be accepting or taught that passing judgement is correct. I think religion unfortunately teaches the latter much more than the former.
 
My family is very conservative. Most of my aunts are either Baptist or Church of Christ members. My parents moved away from them before I was born. My mother just started attending a Presbyterian church only a few years ago. I grew up in a household where I've, very thankfully, been able to make my own choice regarding religion. My parents still have high moral standards and their own concepts of "decency" that I don't always agree with though.

I've been studying Buddhism. My dad is supportive, although my grandmother just believes it's about worshipping a statue. I do believe there is a higher force out there. Whether it is a single being or something else, I'm speculating.
 
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