some people don't watch it because they see a gay couple and they think it's gross or they don't understand it. But that has nothing to do with the show. Buffy doesn't make a big deal about it. The kiss isn't advertised all over to announce to the world 'Yes, we are gay!'. Willow/Tara's first kiss was in the body. It wasn't a big thing, must a natural action. It isn't a big deal. Why shouldn't they kiss? Why shouldn't the characters on Buffy fall in love? Did you know that WB tried to get joss to cut the kiss from the Body, but e refused. Yay for him. Don't let WB push you around.