I was watching angel series 5 when Illyria's talking about wesley getting drunk and calling her a smurf (so funny) because he cant get over Fred, and i thought to myself why is it taking so long for him to "move on" etc when usually characters don't stay fixated on the death of another character that often, then it hit me, wes couldn't move on because there's no way he could comfort himself with statements like "she's gone to a better place" etc because we know she didn't she was completely destroyed. Everything that Fred was is now gone, how can anyone get over that, at least every other character who died in buffyverse they knew that a part of them still existed and with the return of so many characters from the dead there is always hope that one day they may return but for wes there is just no hope whatsoever, Fred's gone and ther's nothing that can ever bring her back, which is why I came to the conclusion that Fred's death was quite simply the worst death ever!
Veyron
{with a tear in my eye} I agree.