While working out I thought about it some and thought I should clarify my reasoning. You see I was thirteen when Buffy came on; so I was just getting ready to start my own high school career. I've been watching horror films and r-rated movies since I was 6 years old. My mother and older brother explained that these were just people pretending and they used movie "magic" to make stuff look so real.
That's so cool that you watched Buffy when it was on television. I discovered it much later - in 2005, in fact. I got real sick and had to take some time off work. A co-worker lent me the series on DVD and the rest, well, is history.
I think that if I had had Buffy around when I was a kid it would have helped me a lot. I could have really identified with the characters. Junior high/freshman year of HS was a difficult time for me.
Question; since you did watch it back then, what was your initial reactions? Has your opinions on aspects of the show changed since then? How so?
This of course occurred right around the time old leather britches was ending the world; which is what mine felt like doing at the time. After that I went under the ill conceived notion that love was crap and I should just find someone to occupy my time with (season 4 & 5 Ruffy). During season five I was eighteen and my perception of love changed as Spike underwent his own drastic awakening. I came to the conclusion that someone far wiser than I did.
Interesting. Sounds like you could really identify with the characters, then?
We like people for their strengths; but love them for their flaws.
Yes, we do. Hence why I love Buffy and Spike so much. They're too deeply flawed characters, but
so strong.
Love isn't like two puzzle pieces coming together in perfect harmony; there should be just enough playing room so that over time; the two give and take so then only after a lifetime do both pieces fit.
Is it just my imagination, or are you referring to Spuffy here?
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Buffy's horror aspect was overall tamer than I was accustomed to; but what it mirrored in my own growth during my formative years has endeared it to me for the rest of my life.
Nice. I wish I could had that experience. High School is Hell is a strong metaphor that I imagine many teens can identify with. Though the horrors in
Buffy were watered down with camp, I still feel many of the themes are very adult. I was sheltered as a kid, and I bet my mother wouldn't have let me watch it, anyway, even if I had been aware of its existence.
Spuffy and Cangel represent two couples who at first glance would never have a reason to fall in love. The odds were so set against them from the start that to believe they might find happiness together is absurd.
True, true. That's what makes their stories so remarkable and enduring. Spike and Buffy came full circle; they started as mortal enemies, became lovers, and finally the in the end, were the closest of friends. Powerful stuff.
But love is absurd; life is short; and to dream the impossible is the only way to live.
You can not choose who you love. It chooses you, right? That's what they say.
This post is bordering on War & Peace length; so I'll end by saying that I might be loves bitca; but at least I'm man enough to admit it.
Here endeth the bloggin'.
I love your posts. Keep 'em coming! I'm the queen of epic posts, too. Join the club, lol.
You should write a 'ship manifesto.