Sky, when I brought up out of character moments, I mean Buffy. Buffy has been around since 1992, and she's never shown interest in a girl as far as I can remember. I flipped the page of a comic book and Buffy out of nowhere is sleeping with a woman. No real build up to it or a great explanation either. At least not yet. Buffy's stealing is questionable as well. She's more extreme than I remember.
As far as surreal happenings on the TV show, yes, crazy things occured, but they didn't happen all the time, and with 144 episodes it didn't distract me. So in the show I'd see one strange moment every 5 to 10 episodes. In the comics, there's an absurd moment in nearly every issue so far. And as weird as some of the moments were on the show, they never became so dumb as a Godzilla sized Dawn stomping around Tokyo and battling a equally sized mecha version of herself. To me personally, it's just too much.
I'm still a fan, I want to make that clear, but sometimes the comic just goes out of control and has no limits or boundries.