Yes, it's amazes me how people mistake Buffy's ultimatum 'you do it my way or I leave' as they are kicking her out. Follow me blindly or I have no use for you.
There wasn't any
my way - just our next goal. In fact, Buffy said that see would work out the details with the others, but that this was where they needed to hit next.
It's the emotive language I don't get. the 'betrayal', 'kicked out of her house', all totally inaccurate.
As opposed to having a hissy fit, storming off and sulking.
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But the Scoobies failed to mention Faith's track record, they apparently didn't tell the girls that, while Buffy had been committed to the mission for years, Faith allied herself with villains and killed people, and had no experience in leadership. And that got girls killed.
Thinking of that, it was almost criminal what the Scoobies did (mainly Giles) - leading a bunch of inexperienced Potentials believe that having Faith would be the same as having Buffy.
I agree here - Faith was a slayer for a short time in Boston - was on the run - was a slayer for a short time in Sunnydale - went rogue and started killing people - went to jail. I love Faith - but she has nowhere near the experience as a slayer that Buffy has. Maybe a full year in total - less time then she spent killing and in prison overall. One on one - watching her against Angelus - fantastic. But that is a way different job than leading. In fact, it was Wesley leading Faith - he planned and she fought.
Buffy knew Sunnydale, she knew the First, she was the one who took all the punches and got all the info she could before getting knocked out. She took down the Turok-han to give the potentials faith in their abilities. She survived Caleb, and figured out that he was holding something critically important. Faith had arrived a few days earlier, had never met Caleb, and had no real experience as the leader of an army.
But the girls knew she was the cool slayer - the one Giles had sent them off to the Bronze with.
Popularity contest?
I would say four sides, as Rona (i think thats who said it) "it's not about you and spike, it's about you"
I would say the sides were Buffy, Spike, Scoobies and the truth. It's funny because Faith said "I didn't come here to be your lapdog" and that is exactly what Spike was.. so Buffy needed a lapdog all along now that her previous ones jumped off her lap.
Yeah - he questioned, then followed her with absolute faith, hit the targets that she pointed at, believed in her completely. Kinda like Faith following Angel but with a lot more history. He wasn't going to let anything happen to her because she was the only person he had ever believed in, the only one who never gave up on him.
"I can't stay here and watch her lead you into some disaster"
"then you cant stay here"
And then Faith led them into some disaster. Ironic that.
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They were NOT united against Buffy. They were united against her plan. And they had every right to be considering what had just happened.
What plan? There was no plan - they booted her out for having decided on the next important goal, even after she said she would be open to talking strategy and creating a plan.
Let her group to be independent and really try to solve a problem instead of digging her out of her grave/calling her back. Most of the time they hide behind her. They talked big, so maybe Buffy should have stopped being their kindegarden teacher and let them prove they could stand on their own legs.
That actually would have been nice. It's Buffy who has paid almost all the cost - physically, emotionally, mentally. I'd love to see any of them take over.
Faith - But the real question is...can you follow?
Could she have? Could she have bowed to public opinion and followed Faith, led together the girls into a trap? That'd show that she is humble. They were really angry at her, trying to prove that being the slayer doesn't make her special, she doesn't get to decide.
That was so bizarre - Anya chose to be a demon. Buffy didn't chose to be a slayer, and it ruined her life in so many ways. But she was the slayer - and up to that moment she was acknowledged as the leader. This wasn't about a plan - Anya didn't attack her plan. There was no plan to attack. This was about a bunch of scared kids believing that if they sent Buffy away hen the war would just be over and there would be nothing more to be scared about.
Group dynamics are so different from one on one.