But by the time season 7 came around Buffy had already let Angel know she intended to move on.
Weeell, Buffy had let Angel know she intended to move on in S4, as far as I recall. We all know how it ended once, twice, thrice, etc. And since I watched the whole series in one go in 2009, all the denial and movings on slipped right pass me causing no effect on the overall perception of the series. I guiess the time put all the dots over all the i's. So I was taking the Bangel scene in Chosen as the only possible and rational conclusion for the series. Everything else was resolved and properly buried ( or turned to ash) by Whedon himself -
who absolutely did not have to come up with his 'Buffy and Angel transcend everything', and yet he did. You might call it shipper pandering etc, but, he pandered to this particular ship, and he did it with absolutely no reason at all but his personal perspective. So, I stick with it, and also stick with dismissal of Cangel as lively but insignificant to the big picture. Which does not mean I begrudge other folks their enjoyment of it. I just find it boring.
Buffy told Andrew to take Dana because Angel was no longer to be trusted. Hell, she could have come to LA to get Dana, and find out what was going on with Angel - could have called him on the phone if SMG refused the gig(which she did).
One good thing that came out of the comics was Joss personal retcon of Buffy ever being in Rome, or ever being aware of Andrew 'representing her' in any capacity. She could not have come to get Dana in LA , because she had no clue about Dana's situation. Andrew took the initiative there. SMG later offered to be in the finale - but Joss did not want her there, so there we go.
And I love "You're Welcome" - It really showed how fantastic Cordy and Angel were together.
Actually, it only showed ( to me) how fantastic Cordy and Angel were when they were 'not together'. As in how fantastic they were when they were friends and partners, and how morbidly awkward they became when kurrumption crap was brought into play. You are Welcome was a very good nod to that friendship - and it also acknowledged that everything else between those two, including notCordelia shagging of Connor, was in the past that was closed and healed. Angel's rebound Nina romance could only be pursued after YaW without making him look like dick with Cordelia still in the coma.
Which only proved btw, that unlike Buffy, Cordelia relationship was nice at one point, but it was a passing thing, same as was Nina.