I totally agree!!! I would consider also Willow ( and the others "friends") with the resurrection spell: they violete the body and the soul of Buffy!!He's a member of a pretty big club. Who hasn't tried to violate buffy's body and/or "protect" her inappropriately?
Giles - that hard to spell test thingy with the vampire & leaving in S6 so she can learn to stand on her own
Xander - the hyena A/R
Angel - protecting her by leaving her
Angelus - trying to kill her
Spike - A/R in seeing red & multiple killing attempts
Warren - when robbing the armoured car
I'm sure we could add to the list