Yes I AM personally offended. How would you feel if you said "I really like Buffy" and a LOT of people on a posting board started talking about how much they hate it and how unoriginal it is and how stupid the characters are and then someone said (AS MESKETET RA DID) "If you like Buffy I have to question your intelligence" and then other members started agreeing with that statement? I think anyone would get a little miffed over that.
Just because you happen to dislike something because it's not your idea of what's right and wrong or good in literature/film/pop culture/life does NOT give you the right to make other people feel that if they like it, something's wrong with them. And anytime Twilight gets brought up on these boards, that is what happens, no matter what direction the thread starts out in. This thread started as a mention of the fact that someone was supposedly suing Stephenie Myer for plagiarism (which is completely false, by the way, and should have been checked out before the thread was posted), and suddenly the thread becomes all about "mindless drivel" and how ignorant and unoriginal the series is. Which, by the way couldn't be farther from the truth. There is nothing else out there like Twilight, which is why I love it so much. Regardless of whether you like something or not, you should still respect the opinions of other members. I disagree with the Twilight haters, but I would never insult someone's intelligence just because they don't agree with me, or constantly rub my opinion in their face to try to make them feel bad for not agreeing with me, and that is what is going on here, and I'm not the only person who feels this way; I'm simply one of the few who has the balls to step up and say something about it.
I know I can't stop posts like this, but I feel that as part of the job, the moderators should. That's my opinion and I'm entitled to it. And it doesn't make me WRONG if you don't agree with me, so stop acting like it does. I've had a few people on this board I consider my friends post this suggestion, and that stings, but whatever. If you don't agree with me, that is fine, but it's not OK for you to disrespect me and other people like me. That is what I'm saying. And because there ARE other members who are just as offended but too shy to say anything about it, that's why I feel Twilight should be banned from being debated/discussed here, 'cause some people don't know how to show the proper respect/professionalism when doing so.
Alrighty there, hun. Slow down.
First things first:
I NEVER SAID(in my memory) that anyone was stupid for liking Twilight. I said I PERSONALLY disliked the series, find it banal, and think it's crap. This, honestly, really shouldn't concern you. It is simply my opinion. You can tell me that characters and series I love suck if you'd like - but I can promise you I will not get personally offended.
Just because you happen to dislike something because it's not your idea of what's right and wrong or good in literature/film/pop culture/life does NOT give you the right to make other people feel that if they like it, something's wrong with them.
I completely agree with this comment, as I'm sure many others on here do. Again, agreeing with BB - can you give us an exact quote to when this was said? As I said, saying something is banal, crappy, drival, etc does not mean the person reading it is "wrong" or stupid, etc. It's just a criticism of the work.
And secondly,
everyone is entitled their own opinion. If someone told me they didn't care for Buffy (people often do) I do not get personally offended, because frankly - I have enough conviction and confidence in my own tastes to not let it bother me. I don't want to sound rude, but you have to realise that people are going to bash things you like all throughout your life, and you just have to deal with it. It's not worth getting personally offended over. I'm sorry.
Thirdly,
This thread started as a mention of the fact that someone was supposedly suing Stephenie Myer for plagiarism (which is completely false, by the way, and should have been checked out before the thread was posted), and suddenly the thread becomes all about "mindless drivel" and how ignorant and unoriginal the series is. Which, by the way couldn't be farther from the truth. There is nothing else out there like Twilight, which is why I love it so much.
I was the one who started this thread, and again, I merely thought it might be an interesting thing to discuss. I thought it lead to a more thoughtful conversation about plagerism in general. And as I mentioned earlier, after Looking Glass posted, I agreed due to what SM said that it was indeed a rumor. And yes, thank you, I probobly should have researched it more extensively in a perfect world - but hey, I'm at work, and I didn't really have time. And plus, I don't really care.
And yet again, I do not think it is "wrong" that you enjoy Twilight.
Please stop putting words in my mouth. I simply stated my opinion on the series.
"Show the proper respect and professonalism"? Huh? I'm sorry you're so offended, I really am. I'm really sorry our opinions have had such an effect on you. In theory, if you love something, it shouldn't matter to you if other people approve of it, would you agree?