I am a Fred/Wesley shipper but I think it made sense that Fred and Gunn got together first because with the exception of Lorne they were the two lighthearted members of the gang. Personality wise, on the surface, they had a lot in common. Wesley not only waited too long, but the events of Billy put an awkwardness between him and Fred that allowed Gunn to sweep in and steal the girl.
Although I prefer Fred with Wesley, I do agree with this. Also, given that Fred had spent 5 yrs in Pylea, I think her emotional growth was a little stunted. Much of Gunn's development comes later, and I think they're at the same place emotionally. They just give off a younger vibe than Wesley. And they've been hanging out a lot, too.
Those Cangel scenes in the wings of the ballet house were pure hotness. I remember being shocked that they got away with that in primetime TV.
Wow, tell me about it! I mean, "I'm only alive when you're inside me"? Yowza.
OK, this is what I think about Cangel so far: I don't mind it. I mean, I don't think it's unrealistic to think that a very good friendship can develop into romance. What bothers me though is that it seems that it's forced on them by others (Fred, Lorne). I wish the writers had made it so that it came more from them. I love the scene at the end of Provider where they're laying on the bed with Connor. That seemed like more than friendship to me. But they both seemed so clueless about it.
And I like Groo, and feel some sweet chemistry between Groo & Cordy, but it really pisses me off. I don't know why I feel that strongly about it, it's just irritating.
In general, I disliked all the stuff before they get to the ballet, liked everything afterward. Seeing each other in their formalwear...oh so corny.
ETA that I loved when the Summer Glau character said, "I don't dance. I echo." Even I, who have not seen Dollhouse yet, thinks that's interesting, since Eliza Dushku's character's name is Echo.
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Have you guys seen the bonus scene where Wesley fantasizes that he's dancing with Fred? It's hilarious, which is precisely why they deleted it:
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=po94GM4qvBg[/ame]