Methinks you are subverting the actual events of the show by completely omitting the behavior modification chip in Spike's head that effectively makes his 'choice not to hurt' humans for him; and at the same time makes him effectively a 'culled vampire' who cannot hunt and feed by himself and who - therefore - needs powerful protection.
I completely disagree. The chip doesn't make the choice for Spike not to hurt humans--it makes the choice not to PHYSICALLY hurt humans. If he wanted to hurt humans, there are a myriad of possible things he could have done in order to achieve that.
As for needing the protection of the scoobies--why? Spike was still completely lethal in the demon community--he could beat up whomever he wanted in order to get minions to get blood for him and provide him protection. With their help he can get human blood, he can get animal blood, he can get a nice coven to call home--all with the power of intimidation and the strength of a master vampire who knows how to kick serious demon ass. He needed nothing from Buffy or her wicca or her watcher in order to survive. And what of his safety?
Let's say he's worried Buffy will kill him if he doesn't pretend to be her bestest friend. Guess what? He could LEAVE Sunnydale.
So. Spike doesn't refrain from harming simply to survive. We've established that, I hope. So, why does he do it?
Moreover, you are omitting instances where Spike actively plots behind Scoobies backs and sides with their enemy to harm them in S4 - until it becomes clear that modifying his behavior is a better way to earn a virtual 'living'.
You're 100% right, I am. I am omitting those instances because I have never once claimed that Spike did any good at all in season 4, if it wasn't for cash. And he went out of his way to do the bad things which I said he could have done without a chip. In season 4, Spike was still Spike. He hadn't yet decided he was going to try to change--a process which begins only after he realizes that he wants Buffy to love him.
This is actually further proof of the first point in this post which is that Spike doesn't NEED to do good things in front of Buffy to survive. He CHOOSES to do them, only AFTER he realizes what he feels for her.
I would say, in case you're wondering, that the very first chronological example of a change within Spike is when he comforts Buffy on her front porch. He even points the gun at her and feels no pain, (it has been established that if he intent to hurt is not there, he can pick up a weapon without feeling pain). Realizing that what he wants to do is comfort her, not kill her, he joins her on the steps and pats her back.
Next, we get a lot of "wrong bloody calls" from him: kidnapping, victim tasting, bot making, etc. If you notice, with each one of those acts, when Buffy expresses displeasure at them, he stops doing them altogether. Not just in front of her, but entirely. That's when the progress begins to take shape.
Being happy that Buffy looks sexy and physically attractive ('glow') is kind of creepy actually - since he is saying this after she broke up with him and while bringing a new girlfriend in tow.
Ok, so here's what he could have done instead: he could have set her house on fire, after she broke up with him. Don't you think any other vampire, or the Spike of season 2, would have done just that? "An eye for an eye pet, you torch my place and I torch yours. I'll show you what you get when you break up with William the Bloody!" Instead, he admits that she looks happy and takes pleasure in it. Yes, he brings the girl to make her jealous. Big deal, quite a lot of people have--it doesn't make them bad or evil.
He is chipped at the time and all his 'right choices' are effectively done under duress - lack of blood source/inability to hunt - and therefore are a violation of 'free will' principle. Effectively making Spike into a puppet and subverting the Clock Work Orange plot into a supernatural melodrama.
Again, I don't understand how Spike is helpless or in duress or lacking of a blood source. He can pick locks, steal, and get others to do his bidding.
Actually, they are completely expected from a soulles vampire. Especially if we remember Harmony painting Cordy's toes - then turning on the group that adopted her at first opportunity.
As I saw it, Harmony painted Cordy's toes because she didn't have a chip and in order to convince Fang Gang that she was harmless and not wanting to suck their blood, she needed to do a very fine acting job. She went after Cordelia, making her believe she was the same old Harmony she'd always been, and that involved reminiscing and toe painting. It was all for the specific purpose of luring the gang into her trap.
Spike's good deeds were not, however, for the specific purpose of luring the Scoobies into a trap.
And that's exactly the point of the scene - if you read commentaries from the writers etc. To remind everybody that a soulless vampire is always a monster. And to remind us why we all love this show so much - because it rarely breaks its inner logic to pander to the fans.
I mostly agree: I think the point of the scene is to show that no matter how much progress he could make--no matter how close he could get to actually becoming a man--the demon inside would always be waiting to override any positivity within and he would revert to his horrible ways. I think that that was the message.
I respectfully disagree here. Methinks liking happens because of the bad boy allure here - and the writers brought the fandom back to Earth by showing exactly what was needed.
I don't know about the rest of the fandom, but I have very little tolerance for "the bad boy" and so there's no allure there for me. The 16-18 year old me was very different--bad boy allure was definitely my downfall in real life, and in fiction, my favorite was actually Angel, (take that however you want!) But now? Not interested. In fact, there isn't one other fictional character whom I truly adore who also happens to be a bad boy. Spike for me is actually the exception. I like him in spite of it, and I actually find his attitude in season 2 quite cheesy and tiresome.
you have spelled exactly the reason for your personal 'cognitive dissonance ' here - aka need to exonerate evil deeds of a character that is simply too cute to be evil.
Well, actually, I honestly don't have the time or the patience to go out of my way excusing anyone's behavior, least of all that of a TV character. And PS, I don't think Spike is cute. I mean, in the face, yes, but that's about it--and it's not unique to Spike.