Oh, gee, pardon me for getting so upset about this thing that I heartily disagree with being done to characters that I have had emotional investments in for the last ELEVEN YEARS that I missed one other POSSIBLE reason why this shouldn't be happening until someone else pointed it out. Bad me. I should be flogged.
It may just be the way I'm reading your words, since obviously I can't hear vocal tone, but I'm getting "You're an idiot" overtones to EVERYTHING you're saying.
Man, just take it however you want. Apparently, you will anyway, since the line you quoted there wasn't even in response to you - Keanoite said that people hadn't missed it, since it was being discussed in the forums, and I pointed out that someone
just said they hadn't thought of that angle, so clearly some people
had missed it. Look, here's the way it is: I post the way I talk; I'm not necessarily trying to be a smart-ass, but I'm getting pretty damn tired of people having a hissy-fit every time I disagree or contradict something they've said. Yeah, I often do sound sarcastic; sometimes I'm trying to make a point, other times it's just the way I talk and it comes off more blunt than I mean for it to.
Deal with it. Or - here's a thought - how about just discuss the issues with me, because I prefer to do that.
I get not liking one plot-line or another, but having said that, I really don't get the level of near-hysteria this one has caused among some posters (not pointing fingers at anyone in particular, and I shouldn't have to put
that disclaimer in every frickin' time I post, either.) Emotional investment? Yeah, okay, this is the
only show that's ever drawn me in enough to bother getting involved in any sort of fandom activities, on-line or otherwise, and the only one whose characters have drawn me in enough to care about them. So, don't give me
emotional investment like you're the only one who cares about these characters. And I don't see this as damaging any of them - yet. We've known from the beginning that all of the characters had flaws and weaknesses, and by the end of Season Seven, they were
all damaged goods and prone to making errors in judgment. That makes them a helluva lot more interesting to me than, say, the Big Blue Boyscout, who's Practically Perfect In Every Way. In fact, I rank these characters pretty darn near the top of my list of Favorite Fictional Characters Ever.
To the issues: I think this is an error in judgment on Buffy's part, too; not because sleeping with another woman was particularly a mistake, but sleeping with someone under her command
is - no matter what it may be for them personally - a one-night stand, a short-term relationship, a life-changing experience, or the worst mistake either of them ever made - it's going to lead to problems in her command. Both of them are embarrassed, both of them are hurt, and obviously so are Willow and Xander to some degree. And this time there are too many people involved for them to just bottle things up - they're going to have to deal somehow.
And I think it's gonna be a great ride. YMMV. Hell,
MMMV by the time we get to the end - but I haven't been disappointed by any of the previous seven seasons so far, even when there were turns in the story that I might have done some other way.
Now - can we just discuss, without all the knicker-twisting? I don't even mind if we argue, bicker, and quibble, but this is all the time I'm going to spare on the drama.
Edit:
I just re-read the Buffy/Satsu sequence, and I'm not really sure from what Buffy is saying that she really wants it to be a one night stand as much as she just wants to be discreet about it.
That's pretty much the way I read it - Buffy's unsure herself right now and wants time to work it out. Man, the bedroom invasion sequence was funny as hell, but I feel really bad for Satsu
and Buffy. Talk about a rude awakening (so to speak, since they were already awake...)