As far as I know sexual assault on an unconscious female while drunk yourself is still considered a rape if she was indeed unresponsive. And getting somebody drunk to the point of them blacking out is kind of awful. A child conceived under such circumstances is pretty much a child of rape. If that happened.
What I'm saying is: we don't know that Buffy was unconscious during sex. We don't know that Buffy even so much as seemed out of her wits during sex. We don't know anything about the situation. Yes, it is still rape, but we do not know anything about the situation. If the two participants were equally inebriated, then it can be argued that it was mutually non-consensual sex just based on the fact that neither had the faculty to consent.
I'm going to wait to learn the situation before I jump to conclusions.
Actually, no, you are not. Judging by what you are arguing here - no.
I'm not pro-choice because I argue that I think Buffy, a character who is all about preserving human life, wouldn't get an abortion? I'm not following that logic.
I really do not like that my status as pro-choice and women's rights is being questioned because I feel that a certain character would not get an abortion. That's Buffy. There are characters I can see getting abortions. I'm not arguing sanctity of life, I'm arguing that
Buffy is a person who fights for lives. I can see her considering it, but I cannot see her going through with it. That's my reading of the character, not my personal feelings on termination.
I think peoples reactions can be somewhat different depending on their personal experience. The reaction to something like that from my POV is disgust and feeling of extreme uncleanness. Trauma and feeling of not being safe anymore. I know she is super-strong and all - but it does not exclude a post traumatic stress. A pregnancy like this is a severe trauma , not a blessing.
As I said, I'm not the only type. Frankly, however, I'm not getting the feeling that Buffy herself looks at the night in issue #1 as rape. She seems to have taken the "stupid mistake" angle. Whether she is mistaken or not, Buffy has not acted like she was raped and thus, in her mind, I don't think it will be a 'rape pregnancy' as much as a "one stupid night that dealt some serious consequences".
Try imagine getting pregnant from complete stranger while being blacked out - then try to be flexible about your body being violated like this, then speak about black and white.
I cannot pretend I would understand being in that situation. I won't. I won't imagine it.
However, I will repeat that A) Buffy has not been thinking about that night as violative, not that we have seen. She had sex, she does not know with whom. I believe she will think of the pregnancy more as a consequence of her drunken state than as a product of rape and B) while I think it is realistic for
Buffy to consider abortion, I don't believe
she will have the procedure.