Question Do you think it was the right decision to have Spike fall in love with Buffy?

Do you think it was the right choice to have Spike fall in love with Buffy?


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But you saw that without him falling in love with Buffy; some of the Spike chip moments were very good, when he was interacting with all of the Scoobies and what not. You lost those moments when he fell in love with Buffy. I mean, really interesting? I just dont see it. No amount of Spike and Buffy interaction after they fell in lust or love could at all surpass the Spike/Willow moment when she was giving him a pep talk for his fangtile dysfunction. Those moments. When Xanders washing machine shrunk his clothes. Those moments. They were all lost when he fell in love with Buffy.

Those moments didn't get lost. They'll always be remembered, at least for me. I still love them for what they were. Just because Spike fell in love with Buffy doesn't mean those moments were diminished. It was just time to explore something else. Something new and different. For me, what was extremely interesting when Spike fell in love with Buffy was first, whether his feelings were genuine. Did he really love Buffy or was it simply an obsession? Second, did Spike really want to change who he was after falling in love with Buffy? These questions and more kept my interest, kept me wanting to see what would happen next. It was different from the moments between Spike and Willow/Spike and Xander in s4, and I like different when a series progresses forward. I don't like to see the same old thing again and again, or else I'll get bored. Sure, it would have been fun to see the Spike we were use to from the beginning (because he's always entertaining to watch), but I know after a while, I would want something different. I would want to see growth/character development. Spike falling in love with Buffy provided that and I loved it.

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Deus Ex Machina agrees: I'm sorry, I thought Angelus was Spike's sire too? In the episode where Buffy had to do parent/teacher night, Spike said "C'mon man you were my sire!" to Angel. Did they change that?

We saw Drusilla actually sire Spike in FFL. When Spike said Angelus was his "sire," in "School Hard," he didn't mean literally (because we learn in FFL Drusilla was his sire). I think it could be said that Angelus was Spike's sire in that Spike learned a lot from Angelus because he also refers to Angelus as his "yoda." In other words, he was his teacher. Joss also said something about it too, but I can't remember the words exactly.
 
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yep, also Angel counts as his sire because technically he's his grandsire... It's a whole sucking thing. :p
Doppelgang
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No amount of Spike and Buffy interaction after they fell in lust or love could at all surpass the Spike/Willow moment when she was giving him a pep talk for his fangtile dysfunction.

Gotta disagree, I hate Spuffy but I hate that ridiculous scene in The Initative even more.

All I can say is you're missing out on so much in the later seasons of Buffy by being so closed-minded to it.

Why, thank you for patronizing me.

So, again I ask, how is it bad that Spike would want to make that choice?

It's bad because it should have been about as possible for him to make that choice as it was to grow wings and fly to the Moon using them...
 
Skanky Vamp
Skanky Vamp
Dude!! that scene is classic.. I'm sorry, we usually agree a bit but come on.. how can you not like it.. Willow is just sooo cute
It's bad because it should have been about as possible for him to make that choice as it was to grow wings and fly to the Moon using them...

Who says? You? Sorry, if Joss says that Spike can grow wings and fly to the moon then Spike can grow wings and fly to the moon. There are no hard and fast rules that "must not be broken". Joss is God in the Buffy universe - if he deems it, it will happen. Sorry, I've just never had much time for that whole "Spike broke canon" argument.
 
This relationship is the single hardest thing about Buffy the series for me to fully grasp. There are moments in it where I think it really fits both characters, but moments where I think it absolutely destroys both characters. I think that if they had done it differently it would have been fine, but as it was written, there are times where it is absolutely awful to me, so I can't really say it was a good thing.
 
Who says? You? Sorry, if Joss says that Spike can grow wings and fly to the moon then Spike can grow wings and fly to the moon. There are no hard and fast rules that "must not be broken". Joss is God in the Buffy universe - if he deems it, it will happen.

Sure. But I am free to say that a story without an internal consistency is a bad story - in my opinion. Everybody wins. 😀 It would be an awfully boring forum if the discussions on this forum were along the lines 'Well, Joss decided this had to happen, hence it was awesome. And flawless. And perfect. And brilliant".

On a more serious note, I doubt many would have liked a show where anything could just happen without rhyme or reason. This simply doesn't work outside of parodies and such. What works for the Wile E. Coyote and the Roadrunner isn't necessarily good for a serious show.
 
Sure. But I am free to say that a story without an internal consistency is a bad story - in my opinion. Everybody wins. 😀 It would be an awfully boring forum if the discussions on this forum were along the lines 'Well, Joss decided this had to happen, hence it was awesome. And flawless. And perfect. And brilliant".

On a more serious note, I doubt many would have liked a show where anything could just happen without rhyme or reason. This simply doesn't work outside of parodies and such. What works for the Wile E. Coyote and the Roadrunner isn't necessarily good for a serious show.

I think a show where there are no rules would be awesome! you would have to do it on a channel like HBO or something because the average joe watching network TV wouldn't be able to deal with the lack of rules... but it would be an AWESOME thing for someone who could conceptualize the "no rules" of the making of the show... and deal with stuff happening even though in the show, it's been said to be impossible... the impossible just become possible... because it does. A show about what happens when the impossible just becomes possible... Oh wow... I can see it now... the universe is constantly changing... the rules are changing and for one person (or small group of people), they see it... and therefore, to them... there are no rules. To everyone else, the rules change and that's the way they think and feel its always been. And it can be whatever.. someone can join the group and someone can leave on a whim... just because... Now I wanna watch that show.
 
@Icarium - I wonder how you define internal consistency. It's such a vague notion.

It looks like you interpret it as a rigid set of rules established in the pilot. The catch is that the majority of the shows start with a simple idea, and then grow and develop, transcending the initial premise. And your take on internal consistency interprets this kind of development as a bad thing.

A bit OT, but I'd love to rec a great essay, The Vegemite Effect that deals with these problems, using BtVS as an example.
 
Why, thank you for patronizing me.

You're missing out on the later seasons of Buffy, based on, IMO, the views you've portrayed on here about those seasons that show a complete lack or missunderstanding of them, that's not patronizing, its just my opinion. I'm entititled to like the later seasons and want to promote them to other people, and defend my opinions about them without being judged as patronising. If you want to take the debate forward say something different to promote your own point of view rather than just reacting to what other people say. 🙂

But I'll answer you're previous post properly if you want to go round and round the same point some more:
Be that as it might (and I do agree that whether Spike wanted to save the world or not, him leaving Buffy to fight alone doesn't make much sense), a good writer doesn't force their characters to do something just because the genre conventions demand it. There needs to be a reason for a character's actions. This is a trap in which Joss fell again and again, especially with comic relief characters like Anya, Harmony and Andrew.
Well write your own show then, rather than wingeing about Joss's show
You mean I dreamt up Joyce dying, Hank abandoning Buffy, Xander's troubles in finding a job, Buffy, Willow and Xander being the school outcasts and the myriad of other very much real life problems that the characters had to face in previous seasons? Just because they failed utterly to deal with their problems in S6 doesn't mean they have never faced such issues before. Heck, the whole seasonal arc for Buffy is pretty much "When She Was Bad", only excruciatingly slow and about as interesting to watch as drying paint.

Hank abandoning Buffy! That was hardly a major storyline, compare to the drama of junkie willow. Joyce dying, was joyce dying, it was a difficult event for them, but it was about Joyce dying, not about having to face their internal demons. Them being outcasts? That was a good storyline for the first seasons, but that was about a childs dilemmas, not about an adult facing his demons, and they can't stay school outcasts forever otherwise it would turn Buffy into Dawson Creek, with them never growing up.

Technicality? Really? That's an odd thing to say considering the entire show is about this "technicality". Vampires are killed for being vampires, I wouldn't call it a technicality, it's certainly big enough factor to justify killing them and sparing human characters who have done the same. Even more importantly, no one in the show bothers to explore the ramifications of Spike being so "human". Even after he manages to get his soul back they continue to kill vampires. It's an exception for the sake of exception, not a gamechanger.

Once again I'll say, they tried to kill him on numerous occasions, but didn't succeed, they don't succeed in killing every vampire, some get away, Dracula got away too. Anyway this was not the point I was making. Being a vampire is a symbolism of human traits towards doing bad and lustful things, Spikes vampire status symbolises this and it is these internal demons he is trying to overcome.

As for the symbolism - things need to make sense in the story itself too. For instance Angel is obviously a metaphor for bad boyfriend in S2. Does that mean the writers should have refrained from having him kill anyone since the run of the mill bad boyfriend isn't a serial murderer?

I think you're getting off the point here, you have to explain better what you mean by things needing to make sense in the story itself too.

No, I meant the internal consistency of the story. If in one episodes vampires need an invitation to come in, then in another they don't without any explanation offered, that's an inconsistency. Same with vampires first being all about evil, then for no rhyme or reason, some become capable of "love" and getting back their soul. I have nothing against trying something new but a decent writer does that without violating the internal logic of their story. Any idiot can write a story that's contradictory.

He wasn't first of all evil, Spike always had some level of human characteristics even in season 2 we saw about him wanting to not have the world destroyed, other people have talked about this argument in alot more detail already. Also he loved Drusilla as soon as he appeared on the show. Once again about the decent writer thing, write something of your own rather than wingeing about others attempts. There is no internal logic violated, just your logic which seems to say good and bad are polar extremes that never touch, reality is, as we learnt in season 6, that the line between good and evil is very thin and ambiguous indeed. Well Joss must be an idiot then according to you, but I don't agree with that personally.


Nice try but that's not really what happened. Anya without her powers is pretty much like Spike with the chip. Her mentality didn't change, she still wanted to smite people and missed her murderous ways. She was only changed by her love for Xander. And she later chooses to stop being a demon. I am not saying it was a well told story or even one that I like but it was basically the same story as Spuffy, only with 95% less angst and nakedness and dumb speeches. And it lacked the great stumbling block of Spuffy since Anya was human, so whatever changes occurred in her they didn't violate the mythos.

There are some parralels between the stories and you've picked them out well, that just adds to the interest in these stories for me. However there are differences too, Anya originally became a human out of the blue, she later chose to stop her demon ways after having chosen to start them up again. Spike got lumbered with a chip and the change towards wanting to love and be human came gradually. I think this makes for an interesting story personally of redemption for them both but going in their own unique ways about it.

I'm sorry if you thought I was being patronising, it is quite difficult sometimes to find the time to make these long responses when you have other things on your mind that you're worrying about 🙂
 
Well write your own show then, rather than wingeing about Joss's show

Doppelgang, you just defended your own right to like and promote the later seasons. Just like you have the right to like or dislike something, Icarium does a well without having to go off and write his own show. Some wingeing is to be expected at a fandom-forum.


For all, remember to keep level heads here and keep the discussion at civil grounds. 🙂
 
How anyone could not like the Willow/Spike erectile dysfunction scene is totally beyond me. I thought that was freakin' hilarious.
 
Skanky Vamp
Skanky Vamp
I know right! Really.. a classic scene. "It's never happened to me before" hahaha
Those moments didn't get lost. They'll always be remembered, at least for me.
No, those moments weren't lost LITERALLY, just any hope for similar moments occurring was lost.

For me, what was extremely interesting when Spike fell in love with Buffy was first, whether his feelings were genuine. Did he really love Buffy or was it simply an obsession? Second, did Spike really want to change who he was after falling in love with Buffy? These questions and more kept my interest, kept me wanting to see what would happen next.
And that would explain why the Twilight series is so popular then; if I want a Harlequin romance I'll watch WE or Oxygen or whatever that channel is called now.
 
How anyone could not like the Willow/Spike erectile dysfunction scene is totally beyond me. I thought that was freakin' hilarious.

I know, me too!! LOL I don't get how someone could watch that scene and NOT laugh... Maybe someone who'd been sucking on lemons a little too long. 😉
 
Skanky Vamp
Skanky Vamp
Actually sucking on lemons is very beneficial for your throat and your singing voice. It is highly recommended.
No, those moments weren't lost LITERALLY, just any hope for similar moments occurring was lost.

That's my point though. 🙂 I don't want to see similar moments over and over again because then the original moments that were awesome would lose their value. For me, it would be like telling the same joke constantly. The first time was hilarious. The second time was still funny, maybe funnier. But after the third, fourth, or fifth time (maybe more) I would be like, "Okay, I get it. That was funny. But, what else you got?"

And that would explain why the Twilight series is so popular then; if I want a Harlequin romance I'll watch WE or Oxygen or whatever that channel is called now.

You did not just compare Twilight to BtVS, lol! 😛 Spike falling in love with Buffy is much more complex, much more interesting (at least for me), and better written than the Twilight love story. No comparison. None whatsoever. 🙂
 
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third time usually is funnier than second time. but maybe that's just me. beyond 3, it DOES just get lame though. :D
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xaphania
If anything Bangel should be compared to Bella/Edward, lol
better written
How can you say it was better written? you are comparing one medium to the other. One was written and one was filmed. The books blew the movies away. I dont know what you mean better written?
 
No,not at all.I completely lost respect for Spà¬ke and it was hard to watch him become one of the Scoobies. I just wanted Season 2 Spike back!
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How can you say it was better written? you are comparing one medium to the other. One was written and one was filmed. The books blew the movies away. I dont know what you mean better written?

For me, I found BtVS to have better writing than Twilight, whether it be the book or the movies. I couldn't even get through the first book. The writing is terrible and I hate the character of Bella. With the movies, I find them laughable. I've only seen the first two, but I'm sure in time I'll see the rest.

Unlike Edward, Spike has real depth to his character. That's a hallmark of good writing IMO. Spike has a past. And when he falls in love with Buffy, it makes him question everything, including who he is and who he became after being sired. For Edward, it's just "Oh, I can't be with you because I want to kill you." Nothing is really explored, which makes it not so complex and interesting IMO. I know others like Twilight, which is fine. But, for me, it's not my cup of tea.

I'm going to watch the Supernatural episode now where they parody Twilight, lol. Sorry for getting off-topic. 🙂
 
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I love Twilight, but I found the Supernatural parody hilarious!
For me, I found BtVS to have better writing than Twilight, whether it be the book or the movies. I couldn't even get through the first book.

Maybe you would be in a better position to judge the series had you actually read the books and not just read part of the first book. The books were much different than the movies. I actually enjoyed the books (once I got through the first half of the first book) the second and third books were actually pretty good.

For Edward, it's just "Oh, I can't be with you because I want to kill you." Nothing is really explored, which makes it not so complex and interesting
Maybe nothing is explored because you didnt actually read the books. It is better than what you describe. You should try again to read them. I do think you would find it worthy. Really do. Avoid the movies at all cost (though the 3rd was serviceable).

I do think you would be more team jacob though.. haha.. just kinda get that feeling big time.
 
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xaphania
The Twilight books are terrible, lol
Maybe you would be in a better position to judge the series had you actually read the books and not just read part of the first book. The books were much different than the movies. I actually enjoyed the books (once I got through the first half of the first book) the second and third books were actually pretty good.

Maybe nothing is explored because you didnt actually read the books. It is better than what you describe. You should try again to read them. I do think you would find it worthy. Really do. Avoid the movies at all cost (though the 3rd was serviceable).

Trust me. My friends have said that I need to read the books, as painful as I think it might be, lol. I literally slammed the first book shut because Bella annoyed me so much. I've pretty much read all the spoilers though, but when I find the time, I may sit down and read them. As of now, other things spark my interest more, so I'd rather spend my time on those things. 🙂

I do think you would be more team jacob though.. haha.. just kinda get that feeling big time.

I'm Team Buffy! 😀 😛 (Honestly though, why is there even team Edward and team Jacob when we know who Bella ends up with, lol? It's not like us shippers where Joss tortures us, lol!)
 
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xaphania
Britt, trust me, DON'T read Twilight. The writing's terrible and they're just horrible books.
Unlike Edward, Spike has real depth to his character. That's a hallmark of good writing IMO.

Sorry, I don't mean to try to convince you of Twilight's greatness or anything cause I hardly like it myself but I must say I find this comparison a bit unfair. Not only because of the book vs tv-show medium but because Spike is given a lot of more freedom to develop as a character because the show, though called 'Buffy' is not told through Buffy's point of view.

The twilight books however are told from Bella's viewpoint. Bella has no direct insight to Edwards mind and therefore his "I can't be with you because I would kill you" motive becomes rather limited and insufficient.
However Edward was further explored in the manuscript that was "Twilight" only written from his perspective. It leaked online though and has therefore not been finished to this day but I'm sure that had it been we would have seen a far 'deeper' Edward.


As for Spike falling in love with Buffy... well I remain on my previous side of the fence. Though I don't really mind him falling in love with her I hate where it lead and how it was written (which in my opinion was very poorly indeed)

I'll quote A flawed fashion who said it so eloquently:

This relationship is the single hardest thing about Buffy the series for me to fully grasp. There are moments in it where I think it really fits both characters, but moments where I think it absolutely destroys both characters. I think that if they had done it differently it would have been fine, but as it was written, there are times where it is absolutely awful to me, so I can't really say it was a good thing.
 
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