If got nothing to say I haven't said before. His answer wasn't to rape her - it went through denial, threats, a misattribution to masochism, seeking a spell to make the feelings go away, trying to seek drunken solace with someone else and when she was upset by that to try and understand why she was when she ended things. The AR was a lack of understanding as to why she found him repellant and a desperate attempt to reverse it. When he realised he'd end hurting her otherwise he stopped and tried to change.You've come back wrong ,what sort of demon are you, Spikes words , he knew she was not the normal Buffy that she was not the Buffy he professed to love , he showed his love by mocking her in the morning after smashed,
Buffy used Spike as self harming because she was mentally ill , but it was Spike who still stalked her not seeking to help her , help with Dawn but just use her for sex , Balcony, outside her home, at her work for instance , she does not understand ? as she asked Why do I keep letting him in ?
Buffy is shown trying to fight her feeling's when she shows at Spikes door in Dead things and thanks the heavens when she hears the scream, Buffy life at this point was patrolling , fighting , money problems, working a job she disliked , a bitch of a sister, her depression and Spikes sexaul abuse no wonder a prison cell would seem to be a better choice
Buffy apologised after Riley's speech, Buffy apologised to Spike even calling his human bodies name of William she realised she had just been using him for self harming , she said sorry and when he said he did not mind, she told him it was killing her.....his answer was to try to rape her
At this point Spike is a demon so no blame can be put there , despite the writers not knowing to make him good or bad...
What I hate is they showed Buffy having sex with a animal..... a thing that has taken over a dead man's body
Why do I hate season 6 so to feed Noxon's ego , to feed Spuffy , they had to make SMG do thing she did not want to do things Sarah said buffy would not do , Noxon said at the end of S6 they knew Sarah would not sign on after her contract run out , recently Noxon has said they went to far Perhaps it was right not to carry on as S7 turned into the Spike show and the mostly criticized season
Without firefly , without S6 would we have got more Buffy ? and if so would it have been as good as the first 5 seasons , the workload on Sarah was enormous , she couldn't carry on have giving so much of her life to a tv show but I am sure there was ways if , Whedon had really wanted to lesson that load
Sometimes a PTSD sufferer instantly reacts to a car backfiring as if it's gunfire. Maybe talk to someone who can help with trauma of the war rather than cursing the car owners might be more productive. The difference being you can avoid the car and not think about it if you don't choose to.