Everyone is allowed their opinion, but please try to stay away from generalizing about people like this, "female fan girls who are obsessed wth spike becaue of the bad boy thing girls like so much", we can all do better when it comes to things like this, I know I can, and we should keep in mind that there are plenty of reasons why people were either attracted to Spike or Spuffy (or other ships).
Let's remember that having a favorite ship and thinking it works better, doesn't have to mean disparaging others for prefering another. Let's keep it about the ships, not the fans personally.
I was not generalizing but it is very common and true that most bad boy characters have a legion of fan girls and these fan girls are the drivers of the ship they like. even JK Rolwing noticed it in her harry potter series commenting on Draco Malfoys legion of fan girls. jk rowling said it bothered her. she never got why girls will want hermione with draco or why girls loved draco. good thing harry potter became global phenomenon and was not reduced to a TV CW/WB show, because the showed would have ruined harry and ron just to prop up draco and let him get with hermione.
its a pattern
pacey from dawson creek
damon from vampire dairies
chuck bass from gossip girl
draco from harry potter
if you notice, in all the shows, many of their female fans really wanted these boys to end up with the main girl. when it was clear the relationship was unhealthy.
i think it is more of young females fantasy. girls love bad boy characters and think they can change them or something.
also outside of harry potter, this bad boy characters went on to ruin their shows because they started getting too much focus and attention above other characters. season 7 of buffy was a spike worship season. other characters became written to be stupid and lame so the bad boys could shine and look more worthy for the girl. see the buffy episode were they all decided to kick her out of her own house including dawn, giles, willow and spike was the only one who had her back.
notice also in buffy, once the spike obsession started in season 5, the writers ruined riley to make way for the spuffy thing.
this is part of the reason i like angel better and felt he was more right for buffy because angel tells buffy,
he had no interests in bad girls like faith. he wanted buffy to go to the light. unlike spike who wanted buffy to embrace his darkness.
men don't really obesses over bad girls,
women should stop obsessing over bad boys.
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what is up with the spell check on this forum?